Hey guys. RPBG here. Right now I have another message for you. Maybe it's preaching to the choir but it needs to be said nonetheless:
We all know why you shouldn't date fatties. We all have seen thin people in relationships with the corpulent population. But allow me to share my experience(not that I've dated a fatty, never). You see both my parents are currently hams. My dad is tall with muscular arms and is tall but has put on quite the gut over the years and my mom is an pretty much obese with significant flab, too much junk in the trunk, and cottage cheese thighs(shudder). Let's just say growing up I witnessed first hand the dysfunction of my parents marriage. Lots of fighting, always bickering and my dad was rather shitlordy in his insults, once saying my mom was so fat that when she shit she couldn't wipe herself and squirted her ass with a water bottle. Though my father's hygiene has alot to be desired, considering his practically rotten teeth and bad breath, and his super dry flaky skinned feet and BO. He also sags alot(I'm talking underwear too yes, I know gross) and has had knee replacement surgery on both legs. My mom to this day likes to pick at food even if me and my sister cook it and has tried Weightwatchers, not eating bread and drinking diet soda, the exercise bike and so on yet her health is basically shitty(despite being a registered nurse too).
After years of bickering, cussing each other out and overall dysfunction, they divorce, got back together then divorced again for good. My old man even threw some physical abuse towards me and verbally disowned me a few times, even if our relationship is a bit better now. Now my parents are rather advance in age for when they had me and my sister. My mom is 50, my dad is 60. Also it seems my parents don't learn from their mistakes.
Currently my dad is with a black women who suffice to say is not pretty looking. Not just her face, but also she is chubby and has a VERY big ass. Not at all in an attractive way, it's almost as if a small pillow was tied around her waist. She apparently makes good money with a job in finance but that wouldn't draw me to her. As for my mother, she has had two other relationships after my father. One was with this guy who probably didn't graduate high school who had his own little odd jobs service. He had a two year old from another relationship(he's 50 and his ex is in her 20s, yeah) and he was a bit rough with her, cussing at her very loud for doing a bit of mischief typical of toddlers. One time when she opened the front door and walked outside, he took he back in and spanked her with his hands very hard while cussing(keep in mind he has a large gut but muscular arms from his hard labor). I sometimes did odd jobs with him for cash, but ultimately the relationship was a train wreck. There was some shit about him cheating, and he also had weed in the house apparently. And one time someone came broke into our garage and stole money he had hidden in there, which seemed to be the baby momma getting child support. Finally he and my mom broke it off and he moved out, which thankfully meant we had our garage back because all his yard work shit was in there.
No my mom has moved on to another black dude. This guy has a civilian job in the military, lives around 50+ miles away but is a fat fuck who is apparently trying to lose weight(just like my mother ''is'', oh joy). I remember bringing them leftover pizza from my job at Domino's which they took quite a liking too. And of course my mom is still friends with some other black people who knew her ex, they are fat too of course.
Also my dad has some bad blood with his brother, my paternal uncle. Despite this, he stayed with us for awhile when I was 12 or 13. He brought along with him his fat girlfriend who had the face of a man with lipstick. No facial hair but rather masculine looking and apparently kinda mentally deficient. In addition my sister said she would ''scratch herself in places'' and go in food and once tried to take the living room tv remote from her. They got kicked out on two occasions by my dad and eventually left. I don't know where my uncle is but we now he dumped that lady and took whatever insurance money she got or something.
The moral of the story is that you should never be in a relationship with fatties. There might be thin couples with such dysfunction but man my parents' relationships should be a clear cue of not to settle because big is not beautiful. It is a source for a wide slew of problems that I've seen firsthand. My parents haven't found true love despite their age, and given their history there isn't much hope. All I can say is I do not intend to follow in their footsteps. I plan on keeping myself in shape, educating my self and not settling for less than who I want to be in life: a fit and educated individual who values that in a partner. None of this ''thick'' and ''curvy'' and shit. To the other black shitlords, I'm not saying I'm perfect or I'm above you all(aside form being fitter than the fats) but the bottom line is our community need lots of work and many of us black people need to get our shit together and stop this nonsense and that starts with fat shit. We are 13% of the US but black women are the most obese demographic. To the lurkers, if black lives matter stop encouraging obesity as being a good thing if you really value black lives because obesity kills way more black lives than any racist police.
That is all.