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[–] Profitigation ago 

I was blessed to have experienced my "first time" in the manner I did. He and I had been dating approximately 8 months and he was ALWAYS very considerate of my comfort boundaries, never acted pushy or distraught over my being less experienced than he. He made me feel confident, in control, and beautiful. When the time came it was at my insistence and direction. He was most importantly respectful of my inexperience, it never seemed an issue at all. For me it was special. We dated another 2 and half years and never once did I feel any regret for sharing myself so fully with him.

It has now been more than 30 years since those days for me and while we each moved on with our lives to include: Marriages, children, divorces, etc. We are even to this very day still friends. I believe the key factor I learned is actually choosing "the right partner" Someone you can share a life with mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Now while he was not my 'Life Partner' he was exactly who I needed in life. He set high standards for every man since to meet, for this I am most appreciative.