Hey AW!
I'm really loving the feedback from the community right now, so keep it coming in and I'll try my best to work on it! Also let's also give a welcome to our two new lovely mods @Mast3rBak3r and @takshis!
Moving onto the thread topic, these are basically going to be a set of discussions that are going to be archived in the sidebar so we can provide at least some input on common subjects.
For this topic, we'll be discussing the topic of virginity as I feel this is a question that pops up fairly often between both men and women who are either curious about their own or are insecure about it or any other questions and comments related to the subject.
So women of voat, what are your thoughts of virginity overall?
More questions to answer are available in the comments! Don't be afraid to ask questions either, these are just side questions. :)
That's all! If you have any suggestions for future FAQ discussions, please don't hesitate to suggest, we strongly appreciate it!
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[–] iv [S] ago
I definitely understand where you're coming from, everyone has an entirely different viewpoint on the subject!
However that's something I personally really like about these types of forums, the answers are so different and you have a variety of responses! I thought it might help get the community to be involved and to help prompt a discussion.
However, if the AW community feels that these threads are unnecessary and don't provide much to the subverse, then the idea can be scrapped in favour of something else.
Thank you for your input and I'll keep in mind that perhaps what we need is something different to get involved. :)
[–] Profitigation ago
I was blessed to have experienced my "first time" in the manner I did. He and I had been dating approximately 8 months and he was ALWAYS very considerate of my comfort boundaries, never acted pushy or distraught over my being less experienced than he. He made me feel confident, in control, and beautiful. When the time came it was at my insistence and direction. He was most importantly respectful of my inexperience, it never seemed an issue at all. For me it was special. We dated another 2 and half years and never once did I feel any regret for sharing myself so fully with him.
It has now been more than 30 years since those days for me and while we each moved on with our lives to include: Marriages, children, divorces, etc. We are even to this very day still friends. I believe the key factor I learned is actually choosing "the right partner" Someone you can share a life with mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Now while he was not my 'Life Partner' he was exactly who I needed in life. He set high standards for every man since to meet, for this I am most appreciative.