I want a cold, straight answer. I don't want to judge. I'm under no illusions of romanticism about men or women. The last thing men need right now is to create more resentment from their ignorance.
What draws you to a man sexually? Is it purely physical size, the man's attractiveness or that he is well off+has a relatively high status. Does it matter if he looks like Donald Trump if he's as rich as Donald Trump (with the added bonus of not grinding your gears like Donald Trump)? Would you do a bum who looked like Channing Tatum? Does age make you more/less open-minded?
Do you go for guys who are bad for you, because those bad things excite you? (Men do this too. I call it the burning moth hypothesis).
What's the rank order of importance? Is it a certain mix where one is more important?
Do you think women are pickier? Less obligated to be patient, kind in modern days? (A few mates asked me about this. I have thought about it.)
I assume women vary heavily and yet spin around a sort of central axis at varying orbits. So that's why I thought it useful to ask.
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[–] DrinkYourNailPolish ago
I care about the MAN. Like if you can make me laugh, love Donald Trump as much as I do, and likes to have deep discussions- I won't be able to handle that 3 inches!! ;P I don't like "bad boys" b/c I don't like boys- I like MEN who handle their business. And I don't give a rat's tail what his social status is, just as long as he takes care of his bills and isn't a leech. Side note: When I met my husband, he was unemployed, but he made me laugh and we had lots of intelligent conversations. We've been together now for 6 years and I don't plan on leaving any time soon! :)