I want a cold, straight answer. I don't want to judge. I'm under no illusions of romanticism about men or women. The last thing men need right now is to create more resentment from their ignorance.
What draws you to a man sexually? Is it purely physical size, the man's attractiveness or that he is well off+has a relatively high status. Does it matter if he looks like Donald Trump if he's as rich as Donald Trump (with the added bonus of not grinding your gears like Donald Trump)? Would you do a bum who looked like Channing Tatum? Does age make you more/less open-minded?
Do you go for guys who are bad for you, because those bad things excite you? (Men do this too. I call it the burning moth hypothesis).
What's the rank order of importance? Is it a certain mix where one is more important?
Do you think women are pickier? Less obligated to be patient, kind in modern days? (A few mates asked me about this. I have thought about it.)
I assume women vary heavily and yet spin around a sort of central axis at varying orbits. So that's why I thought it useful to ask.
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[–] Blackrose ago (edited ago)
What draws you to a man sexually? To be honest make me laugh, if there is no social constraints ( girlfriends, boyfriends, no visible issues) it tends to go down pretty quickly.
I don't go for bad guys at all - those that do find themselves in a loosing situation or try and change a bad boy to being a good boy. That never works BTW - it's as useful as trying to make a bad girl not be a bad girl where's the incentive? Rank order? Nah. Just elements you like. Yes women are pickier - because the down side is harder because there is less resources. Jobs credible ones are hard to come by. Men earn more.