I want a cold, straight answer. I don't want to judge. I'm under no illusions of romanticism about men or women. The last thing men need right now is to create more resentment from their ignorance.
What draws you to a man sexually? Is it purely physical size, the man's attractiveness or that he is well off+has a relatively high status. Does it matter if he looks like Donald Trump if he's as rich as Donald Trump (with the added bonus of not grinding your gears like Donald Trump)? Would you do a bum who looked like Channing Tatum? Does age make you more/less open-minded?
Do you go for guys who are bad for you, because those bad things excite you? (Men do this too. I call it the burning moth hypothesis).
What's the rank order of importance? Is it a certain mix where one is more important?
Do you think women are pickier? Less obligated to be patient, kind in modern days? (A few mates asked me about this. I have thought about it.)
I assume women vary heavily and yet spin around a sort of central axis at varying orbits. So that's why I thought it useful to ask.
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[–] PM-me-about-Autism [S] ago
Does politics have a big impact on personality compatability?
[–] Opieswife ago
Not for me. I can have a completely different political view as my partner. I can still respect and admire someone with different opinions as mine. what I don't like is someone who tries to force their opinions and beliefs on me. I enjoy honest discussions and debates about various topics but don't need to pressure someone to believe what I do and do not want to be pressured in return. This doesn't mean I may not change my mind about politics but I like to think I do so based on my own beliefs opinions and conclusions.
I happen to feel the same way about religion. I can respect the other persons beliefs but feel it is inappropriate for either of us to force our beliefs on each other.