Archived Did you come out, is there a closet, and does it matter? (asexuality)
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Archived Did you come out, is there a closet, and does it matter? (asexuality)
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[–] peppermintblue 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Yea, I sometimes wear a black ring on the middle finger. It's not an everyday wear for me, sometimes I go awhile without thinking about wearing it, but other times I wear it a lot.
I have a small collection of asexual pins too... but I don't really wear them. I just like collecting pins. I had this big pin collection as a kid, most were vintage that my grandparents had given me, and for the life of me can't figure out what happened to them. That's really cute that you wear a little pin on the inside of your clothes. Very stealthy!
[–] GoAskErin [S] ago
Well, online I'm more open, but in person, I don't really think it's anyone's business unless they're a close friend I'm talking on the topic about, or something else that would make it actually relevant; but I always look forward to the possibility of seeing someone ace and sharing a smile.
I love pins but rarely wear them. I have another pin I wear inside my clothes at work, but it's just sentimental. A coworker of mine gave me a Santa pin for my secret (or at least I try) holiday habits at work. I wear it as a reminder to be patient and generous with other people; however, unlike the ace pin, I've actually gotten to flash it at guys dressed up as Santa at my work, even during odd parts of the year. I keep it hidden from everyone else, because of its sentimental meaning. It's my Secret Santa!
I thought about wearing a black ring like that, but I'm picky about stuff on my hands/wrists, and I just haven't found one I really like yet. I've seen someone else do this once in person.