Archived Did you come out, is there a closet, and does it matter? (asexuality)
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Archived Did you come out, is there a closet, and does it matter? (asexuality)
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[–] GoodOldJR 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
My asexuality doesn't define me. For the most part, I go about my life just as any other orientation would. I eat, sleep, work just fine, it is only when someone says "Hey, check her out." that my experience is different. If I was an outspoken asexual I think I might be able to talk about closets and coming out, but I am not. If I didn't like broccoli, it may never come up until I am at a restaurant. My sexuality never really has a reason to come up in normal day to day conversation.
[–] GoAskErin [S] ago
Now I want chicken divan with all the broccoli, cheese, and glorious white wine sauce. Ha!
Makes sense! I always get the impression aces overall are a bit more shy or don't see a need to really talk about their sexuality, like, more than I notice with other people. Anecdotal and all.
Like cake-eating ninjas. Hrm.