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[–] ValkyrieHerja 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

We lie a lot, and sometimes it's ok...sometimes it's not.

I think lying about sexual relations you have while in a relationship with someone is a deceit that is difficult to forgive. Maybe you're just a more forgiving person than most of us.

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[–] septopus 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

I dont know if it is a question of forgiving or a question of what I find important.

Unsafe sex that was lied about becomes an entirely different thing. It is a trespass of consequence. One's inability to really comprehend the risk of danger will temper how important that line item is. When this happened in my youth I had the delusions of invincibility that made it a none issue at the time.

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[–] ValkyrieHerja 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

If someone lied to me and cheated, how could I trust him if he said 'of course I was safe about it!'

I just assume that if someone lied about their sexual relations in one way, they could easily be lying about it in others and you have to assume they are to protect yourself.

If you can disrespect your partner by cheating on them, I don't think you can be trusted to respect their safety to be quite frank.