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[–] EyeRape 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago (edited ago)
I'm a guy and I know this is two x, but, wtf? You're a slimy cheating whore but your brave because you talked about it? And now she's encouraging other people to do the same "well what's stopping you from fucking other people secretly behind their back like high schoolers"
[–] barset ago
This shit started back in the 50s. I really wish I could find the documentary I saw about a decade ago discussing how women since heavily entering the work place have not only caught up with men in terms of affairs, but have surpassed them.
I'm really torn on the issue. In a marriage you, depending on your agreed upon terms, you pretty much lock yourself to one person, but that seems counter to our nature. People have been fucking around for as long as people could fuck it seems like maybe its not such a bad thing, but becomes problematic when people get less selective about sexually partners and diseases get involved.
I dunno. I'm also a dude, who's been cheated on, cheated, and just don't know how to feel about the whole deal.
[–] EyeRape 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I have had the opportunity to cheat before (some drunk girl at the bar) but I just can't and couldn't stomach doing it.
I always thought I would marry an awesome girl that would be loyal to me and I to her, but it seems to me that this just isn't possible anymore, or if it is then extremely rare situations and what are the odds of meeting that girl, every fucking guy wants that girl.
From my own personal experience, and that of my friends, this is exactly the case.
Compared to girls I rarely hear of guys cheating but I do hear of girls cheating on guys a lot more, not just from guys but from girls admitting to the cheating or trying to cheat, like the girl at the bar that was trying to get into my pants (she had a bf and she knew I had a gf) when we were just talking casually. She said he (her bf) was always too tired for sex and working all the time, so she goes out to the bar and tries to sleep with me and her rationale was "its not like I'm gonna marry him" (her exact words) but ffs if she can't stay faithful when they aren't married what will change when she is? She will just rationalize herself into cheating.
Not only that, but girls just hop from guy to guy. So. Many. Guys.
If a girl is decently attractive and she wants a bf, she will always have a bf. I think its interesting. I have a couple exes that do the same trips and go to the same places with each bf..its as if the guy isn't even a person but just an object to fill a role that fits them.
Example: ex gf goes to a downtown area that is heavily decorated for christmas every year, and takes the same picture in front of the tree every year (it doesn't matter which bf it is, I've seen her at the same spot with at least 3-4 different boyfriends).
As guys, we are interchangeable pieces that fit their lives, and if we don't fit or start to not fit they'll discard us for a newer model.
Its a little depressing, but its true.
[–] 5037566? 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
It all sounds so calm and methodical, it reads more like a sociopath's MO than a passionate love affair.
[–] barset 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
That's because it is, just the motivation for fulfillment is different.