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[–] Le_Squish 1 point 4 points (+5|-1) ago 

Men keep insisting on putting babies in women that are completely unqualified for motherhood.

Some women have the wrong personality to be vigilant careful mothers even if they might seem like a perfectly nice person otherwise. Men don't know how to screen for motherliness anymore.

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[–] callthehambulance 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Well that, and all too often the most feckless, idiotic women think a baby is their right.

I know this sounds perverse, but finding out I couldn't have kids, at first, was a bit of a rleief. The responsibility would terrify me and I would be scared of sodding up so hard. But I see lots of women who just do not care one bit about it.

Mixing the two is dangerous

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[–] zxcvzxcv ago 

do you happen to have a comprehensive list that could teach men how to screen for motherliness?

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[–] Le_Squish ago 

A good amount of mothering is risk assessment with a healthy balance of paranoia, anxiety, mistrust and foresight.

You are looking for a crazy sweet spot. Crazy enough to keep up with the insane illogical behavior of children but not so crazy you can't get along with her.