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Never let your husband see you completely naked. Creating mystique and allure is important so if you're topless, be sure to be wearing panties. Even if it's a scarf on your neck...just something. You always want to leave him wanting to see more. Try to leave something to the imagination- we're in this for the long haul.
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During your marriage you only have three times when you can refuse your husband sex. Use these times wisely and for only true headaches. If he doesn't get it from you, eventually he'll find it somewhere else.
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Before your husband comes home from work, freshen up. Not only does that mean put on a little lipstick and comb your hair, but also wash your nether regions so you're prepared if he's in the mood. Always keep your lady parts very clean, groomed, and ready to go.
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Wearing unattractive or stained undergarments is never okay. Always be feminine.
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Own several sexy robes. Those authentic Chinese Silk embroidered ones are great and very heavy & lush.
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Be willing to try new things in bed. It's okay if it doesn't work out just be able to laugh at yourselves when that happens. You never know, you may find something new that turns one or both of you on.
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Keep your hands & feet groomed and your skin moisturized. Don't neglect your face, neck, and chest.
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Stay out of the sun and always wear a hat. Suntans (aka sun damage) may seem like a good idea in your 20s, but you'll look your age and beyond by the time you're 35. Avoid sun and you'll always look at least a decade younger.
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Have a few pretty nightgowns. When I got married, my mother gifted me several vintage French nightgowns. They're subtly sexy and see-through if the sunlight hits it just right.
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Have an evening scent. Something very soft & subtle where he has to get very close to you to be able to smell it. Spray a bit on your hair brush and run it through your hair.
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After intimacy, be sure you go to the bathroom so you don't get a urinary infection. While there, turn on the hot water and grab a clean washcloth and wet it. Give your husband a gentle cleaning so he doesn't have to get out of bed. Ask him if he needs any water, etc. Geisha that man- let him know how grateful you are.
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Don't use sex as a weapon or a bargaining chip. Your husband will resent you and hate you for it. Sex is a wife's (and husband's) duty. Fulfill this role joyfully because sex is a beautiful thing.
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Don't lose your figure and lose the baby weight. If you pack on pounds he'll still love you but he'll be thinking of someone else when the lights are off. Some men are so repulsed by excessive weight gain that they choose to leave the marriage. Just something to consider.
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Dress in a style that he appreciates (dress for him). Don't show too much skin. For instance, if you're showing a little leg the rest of you should be covered. If your outfit shows a bit of cleavage then you shouldn't be showing any leg or back You get the idea. Be classic and subtly/unintentionally sexy. If it looks like you're trying then you failed.
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Accessories: Less is more. Don't wear all your great jewelry with an outfit. I believe it was Coco Chanel that said, "before you leave the house take a look in the mirror and remove one accessory".
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Learn to walk in heels correctly or stick to flats. Little is more unattractive than a woman that can't walk naturally in heels.
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Always have a book you're reading. Part of a wife's job is to be an interesting conversationalist...have something interesting to say other than what you had for lunch.
This is all I can think of off the top of my head. Please add what you were taught (or important things you learned) in the comments below. Thank you <3
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[–] 18689640? [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
You're so welcome! Perhaps you could grab some carrots and start fermenting for fun this weekend. Get her on fermented food ASAP. <3
[–] FSHLLtOW ago
Will do!