Are you feeling lost and that you don't belong anywhere? Perhaps you feel that the only community that will embrace you are lefties and feminists? Do you secretly long for a more stable lifestyle that includes being a devoted wife and mother but feel the Trad community will reject you?
If you're considering giving up a degenerate lifestyle and changing your life in earnest, I for one, welcome you. The Trad Path is not an easy one and you'll be challenged every minute of your waking life, but it's a rewarding journey...just not easy. This is the catch, you can't do it half way. You need to fully commit for life. This means that you need to put trad values & ethics before any selfish desires you may have. When the day comes that you say "I do", this is a promise that must be kept for life (unless of course there is actual abuse or philandering). There are no take backs or do overs even if Prince Charming himself waltzes in during the 4th Act and pledges his undying love for you. There are no take backs. Trads marry for life and we don't cheat.
There is also no larping as a good girl. You have to be honest and upfront about your sexual history so a man can determine if he wants that risk or not. Do not pretend to be something you're not to trap a low count good guy. It's against the rules and I promise you this, he will find out and when he does, he'll never trust you again if you lied. If you decide to take this journey, stop dating and just be with yourself for a year or two and work on cultivating virtue.
You'll need to change your environment, habits, and when necessary your friends so that you can allow space for change and growth. Being Trad is all about blossoming and this takes time. You will need to discover your virtuous voice and learn to listen to it. You're going to learn new skills to pass the time- no idleness. Switching your mind frame from one of entertainment to one of learning, development and growth is an essential part of this process.
We are here to help and support you if this is a path you decide to take. If you're on the fence, please continue to lurk and think about it. See what we have to offer vs what feminism offers.