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[–] LilBrattyMkr 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

I've been so much more attentive to my behavior. I've been changing my critiques and opinions into questions. Like if he says he wants to do something but I don't think it should be done that way because X, Y and Z. Instead of saying "I think we should do this because of X, Y and Z" I ask, "What about X, Y and Z? What if that happens?" And then he responds with a really good thought that I have no qualms getting on board with. It's been really neat to see all of these ideas my husband has that I didn't even know about because I was just doing things my way without ever asking his opinion. The weekend is just about here so it'll be neat to see how we do through the weekend. He's been working 10-12 hours/day this week so we haven't had a chance to spend too much time together.

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[–] 14929839? [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

YES!!!

Isn't it wonderful to see such quick results? I've never known anyone who did the challenge earnestly to not see a difference quickly. My mom always said to make things his idea- that marriage is much smoother when that happens.