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[–] DakotaJane 4 points -3 points (+1|-4) ago  (edited ago)

Wow, so any woman who wore a revealing prom dress has to be from a broken home, etc.

If a woman decides to be her own person and not go to her wedding a virgin, take her husbands name and cook, clean and have children until they die, they are somehow damaged?

Sorry - but if you really see your life as that black and white, you are the one that's broken.

A person can have more than one sex partner without being a slut. A person can decide not to get married early without being damaged. We're probably all going to live until we're close to 100. Why rush to make the big decisions when we're still too young to make informed ones? It's like you're signing up for misery.

If you really are so closed minded that you don't understand we can be both adults and women, I really feel pity for you.

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[–] 14719633? [S] 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

Yeah, I'm guessing you've had a lot more than couple partners.

The reason I'm so vocal when I come across women like yourself is because nobody is telling you the truth. What ends up happening much of the time is that you'll not be able to find a husband when you're finally ready to settle down- maybe your looks will have deteriorated to such an extent that you can't attract one, or maybe you can't find one that wants to invest his life into someone who has slept around a lot...who knows. If you don't find a husband you'll inevitably turn into a hyper feminist because there you'll at least find community (even if it's a sorry substitute for a family) or you'll decide to become a lesbian and raise a child with your partner. Either way it's a problem for society.

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[–] DakotaJane 7 points -7 points (+0|-7) ago 

That’s really your outlook. Now I really feel sorry for you.

Your problems getting a man are your problems, not mine.

The world would be a lot better place if people didn’t project their own deficiencies and insecurities on others.