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[–] ProgNaziGator [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Thanks for your story. Glad it worked out.

My wife had a hard time leaving her career behind. Multuple times I have come home from work early to discover she's been working and has the kids in a care facility. Essentially she has refused to be a stay at home Mom. She is not even cautious about the place or people. Basically toddlers that cant talk have to come home with bruises and explain to her they are being abused for it to register. Being withdrawn and not themselves, reacting when certain kids names are said. Etc. None if it registers..

After a 2 years of this I finally left my career and became a stay bv at home Dad. Because she was willing to lie and deceive there was nothing I could do to keep her from doing it again. I am not well equipped to be a stay at home Dad. It's hard on everyone. Money is tight without my income. But the alternative was not acceptable. Hug your wife tight, you've got a good one.

Of course everyone in our church, family etc now think I'm a jobless loser. We were married over 10 years before we had kids, she never stopped bitching about how she wanted to stop working and raise kids. More the fool am I.

Sorry to open up, just hope you appreciate what you have. Jew feminazism have ruined lots of good women and caused family misery.

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[–] stbelmont 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Reminder that until the Industrial Revolution it was normal for both parents to work at home. Think farmer, craftsman, living over a shop.

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[–] ThisIsMyRealName 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I guess it kind of helped that my wife didn't really have a career. She was a key holder, sort of a team lead I guess, at Dollar General. If she had stuck with it she would have been promoted to assistant manager, and I'm certain eventually store manager. So maybe it could have been a career.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It breaks my heart a little that your wife seems to either care so little about the well being of her husband and children, or she just doesn't understand the negative effects on you all for her choices. Hopefully the situation improves at some point, but I'm not sure how you will get there.

Sorry to open up, just hope you appreciate what you have.

No problem man, we're fellow goats. Open up whenever you feel like it. And I do appreciate what I have, very much. This is far and away a better situation for me than I ever imagined I would have.

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[–] callthehambulance 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Hey;

I've never been in your position and can't empathise with it, but I wanted to tell you I really respect and admire what you did there. you are the complete antithesis of a jobless loser. You're an incredible person and as a kid I would have loved to have had a Dad who would have made such a choice for me and my siblings.

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[–] ProgNaziGator [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Thanks for your nice words. Ya it's been a kick in the nuts.