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[–] DefenderOfTruth 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Well, she did marry the guy and even raised kids with him. Obviously there’s something she loved in him. At this point no use of her thinking what she should have done. That’s toxic thinking.

I know I’m like a broken record recommending this book around here, but I’d recommend she read Fascinating Womanhood. It’s an old book (1950’s?) But is written in a very engaging lively way. I think she’ll see her slumped Marriage turn around if she’ll pick herself up first.

I notice when I’m down, my husband goes down too. For some reason, it’s very hard for a husband to change the emotional energy of a marriage. It has to be the wife who does it.

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[–] plankO [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Thanks, I'll look up this book too