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[–] Draurgothoth 0 points 65 points (+65|-0) ago  (edited ago)

If she's cheating with you, she's going to be cheating on you.

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[–] Funkypurplekitty 0 points 26 points (+26|-0) ago 

This is for both genders.

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[–] Draurgothoth 0 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago 

Agreed

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[–] BlackGrapeDrank 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

smelly pussy is bad. and even worse if she doesn't notice.

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[–] BlackGrapeDrank 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

if she's just too good and too comfortable at giving head. make it a very short relationship.

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[–] cuello_rojo 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Usually true. But once in a while you might run across one who just likes it - even though she's got little experience. You can tell when that's the case. You gonna throw that away?

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[–] ReconquerCurvy 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

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[–] Hydrocephalus 0 points 54 points (+54|-0) ago 

If she complains that her mother is a crazy bitch, and that her sister is a crazy bitch, she might also be a crazy bitch.

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[–] FormerBaltimoreRes 1 points 27 points (+28|-1) ago 

Similarly, don't expect long term stability if she comes from a broken home. Running a house hold is a skill that is taught from mother to daughter, if mom couldn't hold things together then the daughter can't either.

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[–] daskapitalist 0 points 11 points (+11|-0) ago 

Freaking single moms and their messed up children who never learned how to run a succesful relationship.

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[–] CommanderFaun 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

I've seen women from broken homes make great mums because they try extra hard to give their kids what they couldn't have. But yeah, mostly you're right and these would only be outliers.

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[–] Hydrocephalus 0 points 24 points (+24|-0) ago 

Also, she spends a lot of time complaining about ex-boyfriends.

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[–] Empress [S] 0 points 14 points (+14|-0) ago 

True- and how she talks about her exes is how she'll talk about you when broken up.

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[–] daskapitalist 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

This is a good one, and it applies to either sex. "I went on 1-2 dates before realizing someone was crazy" is one thing, but "My ex of a long time was terrible" calls into question their judgement.

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[–] Empress [S] 0 points 15 points (+15|-0) ago 

This is so true..if she's surrounded by crazy bitches, she's likely the crazy bitch.

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[–] SexMachine 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

My ex-wife's mother had borderline personality disorder. Guess who else ended up getting diagnosed with that?

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[–] Broc_Lia 0 points 40 points (+40|-0) ago 

  • Childlike/immature

  • Attention seeking

  • Heavy smoker/drinker

  • Promiscuous

  • SJW politics (I used to believe in live and let live, it doesn't work, they eventually want you to ditch your principles, this goes for friends too, not just partners)

  • Coloured hair, see above. Also falls under attention seeking.

  • Works in an SJW laden sector, it'll eventually rub off unless they have an extremely strong personality.

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[–] CommiePatrol 0 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago 

Funny I work in an extremely liberal area, silicone valley, becoming more conservative by the day.

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[–] Broc_Lia 0 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago 

I'd like to hear more about that. How is it becoming more conservative and why? Did they get sick of the diversity hire antics?

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[–] I_Love_Hentai 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

You mention 3 that ended my marriage and left out a few: Attention whore. Cheater. "The rules don't apply to me."

The ones you didn't mention in my case were: Selfishness, Demanding, Narcissism, Me First, Disrespectful, Delusional, Nothing-is-Ever-Good-Enough.

From personal exp, when you marry someone, its very possible she will do everything to emotionally hurt you in every way possible.

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[–] Karnivor 0 points 35 points (+35|-0) ago 

If she threatens to walk out within a few days of meeting you over a non argument... It's a power play. She wants dominance. Let her walk out and don't invite her back.

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[–] cuello_rojo 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago  (edited ago)

If she threatens...anything over anything it's time to cut her loose. It's one thing for her to be unhappy about something and want to discuss it with you. It's quite another for her- or anyone - to issue ultimatums or threats. Early ultimatums or threats are just advertisements for features that you are going to get to experience completely and regularly in the fullness of time.

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[–] Mr_Wolf 0 points 32 points (+32|-0) ago 

if she says:

If you can't handle me at my worst...

Just drop her and leave.

It's basically her telling you that she has severe mental problems and you will never make her happy.

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[–] Funkypurplekitty 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

This one is solid advice! My sil has said this many times. She is crazy. Divorced and now three kids by two different guys.

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[–] mrfetus 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

It means that she feels justified in acting crazy, it's a rationalization.

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[–] TheKobold 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

That was a good saying until crazy bitches took it up as their motto.

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[–] SweetChicken 0 points 31 points (+31|-0) ago 

When you meet her mother remember that is likely what her daughter will resemble at that age. While I know this isn’t always the case, I still wish I had figured this out sooner.

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[–] Norm85 0 points 18 points (+18|-0) ago 

Not just looks.

The apple does not fall far from the tree. Try to meet both parents early in the relationship. Your partner's relationships with their own parents is a strong indicator of how they'll relate to you once the honeymoon period has ended.

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[–] SweetChicken 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

You speak the truth. In my situation, my wife did not receive parenting from both parents due to the early divorce. My mother-in law learned the hard way with her poor decisions. It’s funny because many times I consider speaking with her mother about issues because I know she’ll agree with me because she already learned that lesson. On the other hand it’s her daughter and I refrain because I worry she’ll just act like a typical irrational woman. Maybe one day I’ll pull this trigger.

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[–] vastrightwing 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Corollary, talk to her dad and listen what he says about his wife.

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[–] Germ22 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

That is one of the few relationship advises i got from my dad at a early age. It is so true and i have always remembered it and been able to avoid some really bad relationships heading that advice. Not just looks, but personality as well.

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[–] ArmoredGoatLoki 0 points 29 points (+29|-0) ago  (edited ago)

if a guy fantasizes about watching you getting fucked by another man, its a sign he can't stand up for himself and will fold when confronted by a mugger. I had bugged him about why he only bought used rust buckets for cars that were barely holding together when he had money from his job in finance (he made just over 6 figures the rest went over my head). i found out when he was held up, he just tossed the keys out the window and walked away like it was nothing. Didn't even call the cops, and never canceled the insurance. Thankfully i never married the weak bastard, but it cost me 5 years before i figured out i wasted my time.

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[–] TimberWolfAlpha 1 points 10 points (+11|-1) ago 

I mean, the rest of that is pathetic, but I wouldn't place TOO much importance in what someone spends on a vehicle. Me, I just can't at all stand how fast they depreciate. I buy em a little better than that (in the $4,000 to 8,000 range) and just savor owning my truck outright, no strings on me, no bank looming like the sword of damocles.

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[–] ArmoredGoatLoki 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

he would NEVER consider buying a vehicle above $1500 at most, and try to talk them down to $1000. he had 60k in the bank that he never touched, even when his car broke down going back to his parents for the holidays. i wound up driving him around for holiday trips after that first year just so i would not have to deal with his bullshit about cars. Looking back, i honestly have no idea wtf was wrong with him.

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[–] cuello_rojo 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

if a guy fantasizes about watching you getting fucked by another man, its a sign....

It's a sign he's fucked up and you need to get rid of him. Forget about the car or standing up for himself. Why would you want to be in a relationship with a guy who fantasizes about being cucked?

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[–] ArmoredGoatLoki 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

back then i was waiting for him to bulk out like both of his brothers did, which never happened. I dumped him around 16 years ago this August.

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[–] mrfetus 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Typical cuck. Never wait on a man, we know if you're the 'one' in a month.

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[–] ArmoredGoatLoki 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

His brothers were just as thin as he was before they hit a growth spurt their junior and senior year. My ex never hit that growth spurt. I could not date either of his brothers, so i 'settled' for 3rd best. turns out a beta is just a beta, and there's no magic hormone you can inject or wand you can wave to make a weakling into a man.

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[–] nomadriders 0 points 26 points (+26|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Heavy drinkers will always cheat on you eventually, they have no self control nor inhibition.

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[–] FormerBaltimoreRes 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

Goats, take this one to heart. I don't know a heavy drinking girl who didn't fuck around.

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[–] cuello_rojo 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Can confirm. Women you meet in bars are usually basically trash. They're good for fucking and fun, but expect them to act like histrionic whores and you won't be disappointed. The only exception might be a girl you meet in a bar who tells you she doesn't normally go to bars and then never goes back or drinks

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[–] SeriousNiggerFaggot 3 points 3 points (+6|-3) ago 

I'm a heavy drinker and I have never cheated on anyone and never will. Are you talking about bar fly women instead of asocial hermit men?

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[–] Negro_Nazi 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

I actually really enjoy shooting women down, especially slurry women. I was married 8 years and cheated when I was younger but only when I was sloppy drunk It was the biggest mistake of my life other then getting kicked from the corps. Now I will not cheat no matter what.

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[–] cuello_rojo 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Never date a girl who drinks more than 1/2 of what you do. Ideally, girls shouldn't drink at all. Women are the stabilizing force on many of the moral and social fronts where guys tend to go to extremes.

You want a girl who can rein in your drinking, smoking, and other bad habits. Not one who drags you down further. A good woman will not bug you about this stuff, but she will nudge you to change. A nudge from a woman you respect and love is everything. It will make you quit drinking. It will make you buckle down and study and get a degree in engineering, stick with your business, or accomplish whatever other positive goals and endeavors you have set for yourself. It's not for nothing that they used to say "behind every successful man is a good woman."

A woman who believes in you, supports you, and nudges you forward is maybe the most powerful force a man can have in his life outside of a belief in some kind of God. Just as a bitch who nags you, drags you down, and can't be trusted is the most poisonous, lethal, and destructive thing you can experience.

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