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[–] daskapitalist 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Those are great points, particularly regarding fertility and not being able to have it all. A lot of western women assume that because men throw themselves at them when they're young, that this will continue forever and life will be eternally on easy-mode.

Unfortunately too few people point out that female youth, fertility, and beauty are a declining asset that women receive up front. Women need to use it to land a good man when they're young so they can develop other assets as they age (e.g. a pleasant temperament, children or a career, etc).

Otherwise gals end up wondering "where have all the good men gone" in their 30s because those good men have been making something of themselves while she's been squandering her SMV.

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[–] Sarcastatron_9000 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Those are great points, particularly regarding fertility and not being able to have it all. A lot of western women assume that because men throw themselves at them when they're young, that this will continue forever and life will be eternally on easy-mode.

It's not just that. It's your body itself and how our fertility naturally works. Taking it for granted is always, always a mistake. I did. I grew up in a Christian home...born again when I was 13...I decided to save sex for marriage, and married a guy who did too. We were virgins until our wedding night. I assumed that everything would be just fine in that department because we had waited, and that surely meant God would bless us with lots of kids. I was a vibrantly healthy 19-year-old, after all, so what could possibly go wrong?

hahaha sobbing Yeah, I was naive. So many things went wrong. Four of the six babies I ever conceived died, one at full term just out of the blue. Bringing kids into the world turned out to be laced with trauma and fear and grief for me, in spite of "doing it the right way" and being young and, I assumed, healthy. My female issues have only gotten worse as I've gotten older. I'm 34 now, and there's no way in hell I would ever want to try to start a family with the way my cycle is now! It's pretty screwed up. I'm so very thankful that we didn't wait, and that we managed to have the two kids we've got. Banking on "one day in my thirties" is a terrible idea for women. Oh it works out for some of them, but not everyone is lucky.

Women need to use it to land a good man when they're young so they can develop other assets as they age (e.g. a pleasant temperament, children or a career, etc).

That's another Red Pill for women - if you want to land a good man, then you have to develop your mind and character and temperament in your teen years, while you're young, because a good man will be looking for a woman who is kind and has strong values and is a delight to be around. He's gonna be less interested in an angry fembot.

Otherwise gals end up wondering "where have all the good men gone" in their 30s because those good men have been making something of themselves while she's been squandering her SMV.

Yep. This is especially true if she got herself pregnant and is currently a single mom. All those "good men" were the ones she spurned in favour of sleeping with the players.

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[–] daskapitalist 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

I wish every mother sat her daughter down in her teens and explained that being a single mom reduced their SMV not to zero, but into the negatives. As in "STDs" or "currently under house arrest", or "ladybits are literally infested by bees" territory. If she's awesome in every other way she might claw her way up to having a low SMV, but why go through all that effort when /not getting knocked up by some badboy is so much easier/?

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[–] theepilepticferret 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

"Men age like wine... Women age like milk" 😂