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[–] Empress [S] 0 points 25 points (+25|-0) ago 

Church, gun-clubs, group activities.

Go to the same service at the same church a few times and the Aunties will notice an eligible bachelor and bring their nieces. Also, church potlucks and picnics are a good place to check out. You don't have to be a Christian to go to church, just let people know that you're keeping an open mind. The man that runs our Bible study wasn't a Christian when he met his wife (the woman who helps me in with my own spiritual battles-she's incredible).

I also recommend that men seeking good wives join a gun club even if they don't know how to shoot yet. Let the old men teach you and get to know you. After they've learned what a great guy you are and how willing you are to learn, they'll likely be open to introducing you to their single daughters/granddaughters. They'll probably just invite you over for supper after shooting and the single girls will just happen to be there. These girls have been red-pilled on the 2A their whole lives and will be less likely to nag you over your growing gun collection.

Join clubs- book clubs, hiking clubs, gardening groups...really, any club that is about self-improvement. Trad Women are all about self-improvement so a baking class or fermenting class isn't a bad idea either.

I met my husband online on OKCupid years ago. It was my first time online dating and I screened for unmarried Christian men and he showed up. We were married six months later and neither of us have any regrets.

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[–] lorlipone 0 points 18 points (+18|-0) ago 

I'm not christian at all, but I've been seriously considering going to church lately. Generally positive environment, generally good people, events that don't revolve around getting drunk, and women who don't glorify things like twerking. I can keep my mouth shut about my skepticism in exchange.

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[–] Empress [S] 0 points 11 points (+11|-0) ago 

I can keep my mouth shut about my skepticism in exchange.

You don't have to, just couch it politely. People in the church aren't scared of being questioned- they welcome it.

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[–] 9-11 3 points 3 points (+6|-3) ago 

Church is half of "Church and State". But lying to a potential mate there about your jew status wont go unnoticed.

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[–] kitnaht 3 points -3 points (+0|-3) ago 

Join a hackerspace. Same thing. Except not centered around imaginary friends.

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[–] MisterWings 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I did Eharmony because I was living in New York City at the time and trying to find a woman there who didn't view you as a 5-year retirement program is tough. Our first official date was at her parent's church and we were married 6 months later.

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[–] Password_ 0 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago 

Yahoo chat? so like 100 years ago?

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[–] JunOS 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago  (edited ago)

People have met on weirder circumstances. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters.

Where are you living now, just out of curiosity? Was it hard to assimilate. How about the language. Totally understand if you'd rather not divulge.

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[–] Rellik88 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

Well Im not sure if my wife is a "trad wife." She a stay at home mom, takes care of the house, and runs her own business. However we like tattoos, drinking, and parting (must admit not much time for that now since we have kids.). Honestly you guys would consider us degenerates, however we totally agree with the ideas in the sub. I guess you could say we are ex-degenerates?

Where did we meet? A dope house.... No joke, my wife and I are ex meth users. However we decided to move away from everyone we know, and have both been clean for fuck 13 years now? So long I dont quite remember. My wife and I have been together for 16 years now. We had been together for 10 before our first child. We now have a wonderful little girl, and we foster my niece, and nephew. (My sis decided to have 5 kids by three different dads. Fucking looser, at least she is a wannabe nazi, and hates niggers. I would kill her if she burned the coal.)

My wifes mother is definitely a trad wife, she never worked, and just kept the home together. So my wife grew up in that life.

So yea my wife is wonderful and I couldn't do it without her. For reals she my my better half and partner, in this life and the next.

Yea I got lucky, your results may differ.

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[–] Empress [S] 0 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago 

You've got yourself an interesting story! Really glad you both got clean and sober and have built a happy life together. IDK, I'm definitely more straight edge and my friends jokingly call me 'Martha Stewart'. You and your wife would probably look at me and think I was a snob (I'm not though). The trad life is for anyone that wants to instill old-fashioned values into the next generation and have a marriage without the typical power struggles. I for one, welcome you. <3

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[–] Rellik88 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

Just for the record, the image people get of meth users, dirty toothless rednecks. Doesn't apply to us. We meet when she was 15 and I 19. She was a pretty young girl who fell into the wrong crowed. Being a beautiful young girl, thirsty guys gave her all the drugs she wanted. Luckily she wasn't a whore. Also I never committed crimes for my fix. A buddy and I would do odd jobs for dealers, installing remote control cameras, wireless mics, tweakers are paranoid. Even repoed bikes for a drug/bike dealer. Also was muscle who would show up on your door if you didnt pay your credit line off.

However thats all way in the past. I'm now a security guard who works closely with PD. Go figure, haha. Honestly want to apply to be a cop, but they do polygraphs so no way ill pass. My wife has an Esty business making bouquets for weddings.

So yea turned all that bad around. We have an amazing marriage, and amazing kids. Money is the only thing thats a pain, but we get by.

Also my wife doesn't Voat, however I show her a lot from this sub though.

@Empress great sub, best one on Voat for sure! Makes me feel good people still see the value in the way we once where.

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[–] Le_Squish 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

Cultural Festival.

Last few culture fests I've attended women outnumbered men 3:1. Easy pickings

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[–] DishingShitLikeA 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Like a Renaissance Faire?

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[–] Le_Squish 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Even there. In my experience, men don't really show up in droves to these sorts of things unless there is free food or they already have a family.

If you want to connect with women interested in traditions, these are good places to start.

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[–] Empress [S] 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I hadn't considered that but you're absolutely right.

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[–] Adminstrater 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago  (edited ago)

I heard a club works well.

Just hit her over the head, and drag her back to your cave. I saw it on the Flintstones, and they seem pretty happy.

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[–] WD_Pelley 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

I've often said that I don't want to get married or have children but I could be tempted to. It's just that I'll have to get out of this home town that I'm in; it's not really the best. Because of that I've often romanticized about foreign (but still White) brides, like a Boer or Northern Irish girl. Maybe I'll try again; there has to be trad wife material here in my state.

I just want us to live within our means, be fit, happy, healthy, be at least fairly right-wing, the usual stuff. I don't want us to be McMansion types with fatass kids and hauling them from soccer practice after being in a "diverse" school.

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[–] DishingShitLikeA 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Get off your ass and do it!

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[–] WD_Pelley 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

O-OK. I'll see what I can do.

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[–] Runaway-White-Slave 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago  (edited ago)

The farmers market on Saturday mornings, haven't been in a while but with the weather cooling I'll be there regularly through the cold months. Local livestock auction, same there the heat of the Summer has kept me away but with the weather letting up before too much longer I'll be there regularly.

Other than that...... Idk, I can't think of anywhere else in public to meet people where everybody isn't in a "smart" phone trance.....? I mean the grocery store but if you go when it's busy it's hell, and if you go when it's not there's no one there. That and the grocery store is a total crap shoot as far as looking for trad people.

{Probably should've read the title better. Male, never married, no children, and where I'd be looking.}

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[–] Mr_Wolf 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I'd kill for a decent farmers market. All the ones around me ever have is tomatoes and potatoes, and a few local people selling home made goods that make you feel like you're getting ripped off.

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[–] Lt_Gonville_Bromhead 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

I met my wife in the produce section of a grocery store. I worked the section and she knew her shit in regards to cooking fresh fruits and vegetables and I asked her out right then and there.

Hindsight 20/20: it's kind of weird to find a connection in cooking prowess with someone and then ask them on a date where neither of you will do any cooking.

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[–] Empress [S] 1 points 5 points (+6|-1) ago 

I asked her out right then and there.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Well done!

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[–] ChanceofRain 0 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago 

It's an old retail trick. Most sales are driven by a few core items but that would leave the store plain and uninspiring. The appearance of novelty items hits the old dopamine trigger, convincing the shopper into spending more time in the store. More time spent, more likely they are to pick up more of those "safe" items as well.

Persimmons? What the heck are those? I don't know, but those tomatoes look pretty good right now.

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[–] Lt_Gonville_Bromhead 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago  (edited ago)

My store stoped stocking rutabagas, turnips, parsnips, ginger, and a bunch of other stuff because no one was buying it and when they did research on why, they said no one knew how to cook or serve them. The state of America's kitchens is really bad. My wife and I have really been stepping up our game since we found Voat and this sub but in our circle of friends, like us and one other couple eat at home. Everyone else eats out for practically every meal.

Edit: add a comma

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[–] Itsame 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I like rutabaga pie. Probably a different store though.

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