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[–] Funkypurplekitty [S] 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I've prayed this or similar prayers so often. Sometimes only God knows how to help us to be what our husbands needs.

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[–] PM_ME_YOUR_BOOBS2 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

I'm sure most days you already are, you just don't know it all the time

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[–] Master_Foo 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago  (edited ago)

edit: after thinking about what I wrote below, I can see how what I'm saying could be interpreted as "woman hating". That is not my intention. I'm simply describing social dynamics between men and women. I'm not saying I hate women for a situation which is, quite frankly, "nature fucking us over". So, if anything, I'm blaming reality, not women. LOL...


You don't need God to tell you what men need. We aren't women. We don't play mind games. We don't like complications. We are really fucking simple in the things we naturally need.

Its like this, I ask my male buddy if he wants cream in his coffee. He says "No". That means he doesn't want cream in his coffee.

I ask my lady friend if she wants cream in her coffee. She says "No". That means she really does want cream in her coffee, but first I have to ask her "Are you sure you don't want cream in your coffee?". Then she'll say "Yes". But if I don't ask if she is sure, I'm fucked, because I should have known "No" means "Yes".

The problem with asking God what your husband needs is, that whole conversation happens in your lady brain and the answer is going to have all kinds of lady games and lady baggage as a result. Which is unnecessary, because when we say, "No, I don't want cream in my coffee" it means we don't want cream in our coffee, and you don't need the Oracle of Delphi to interpret tea leaves to decipher the meaning of "I don't want cream in my coffee".

I'll give you a hint about how to know what men actually need: Maslow's hierarchy of needs. The "Physiological Needs" at the base there are pretty much everything. Probably 90% of our time is spent there. And we don't need much of it.

For instance, find any man who isn't totally cucked by the modern world and he'd probably be perfectly happy living his life in a tent, fishing down by the river. We don't spend our lifetime working off debt for a McMansion because we are happy in a McMansion. The reason we do that is because that is what it takes to attract YOU the woman. So, keep that in mind. Men need a tent. You are the one who needs the McMansion.

Second example is food. Once again, Fishing by the river. Perfectly fine with us! Same with water. Our needs are met living in a tent down by the river.

Third is some peace and quiet. Solved by a tent down by the river.

The one need that completely fucks up every man's happiness is sex. Why? Because all those layers on top of the base layer in that pyramid really aren't relevant until there is something else to interact with socially. So, in order to get sex we have to complicate our simple lives 100000% to get it. And we'll gladly do it just so you can have your McMansion and we can have our pussy.

So, let me make this very, very, clear. Men don't need much. It's very, very, easy for a woman to be everything a man needs. If a man's needs become complicated, it's because there is a woman nearby who is complicating everything. And I wouldn't be surprised if a large portion of that complication is compounded by a woman asking her "God" how to complicate things even more.

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[–] Funkypurplekitty [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Well this is where my head went for most of your comment https://youtu.be/3nhgfjrKi0o

But jokes aside you have the wrong idea of what this post is about.
Im not asking God what my husband needs I'm asking him to help me be what my husband needs. This might not sound like a significant difference to you but it is. I usaully know what it is he needs but I do always know how to be that person for him. Im asking God for knowledge, strength, direction. I'm asking God to work though me so that my husband can be supported in a way I csn not do with my own power. Now if you don't belive in God then of course you are not going to understand this but for me it is not mearly about knowing what my husband wants.

Also for the record where I would have a hard time being happy in a tent I no where need a mansion. If you are meeting girls that want that and the moon maybe you are after the wrong girls.

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[–] Nadeshda 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Triggered... couldn't read it all... my female brain got distracted... You got one thing right, men are way less complicated then women. I will give you that... But as for your psychological mumbo jumbo justification of a self made man! Oh boy...

It's Spiritual, you won't get it... get over it...

It's late, go to bed.

PS; not all women are evil. Praying for you! And I am sorry about that girl who broke your heart...

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[–] Germ22 2 points -1 points (+1|-2) ago  (edited ago)

nice post, bur here is an idea. stop talking to your imaginary friend in the heavens, and talk to your husband. ask him what, if anything, you can do better

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[–] Nadeshda 1 points 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

It's the heart and head that needs fixing and my husband just cannot do that for me. That comes from deep within. Where deep calls to deep, and if your paddling in the ocean of the flesh then how the hell are you going to understand the SPIRIT? You cannot, move on and stop harassing women, @funkypurplekitty

You, sir, cannot submit to God and that is why a women will never be able to fully summit to you with her heart, soul and mind. You make me sad.

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[–] Funkypurplekitty [S] 1 points 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

I do talk to my husband but I also belive in the power of God and prayer.

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[–] meno 2 points -1 points (+1|-2) ago 

lol, probably gonna trigger some people that still believe in fairy tales.

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[–] 9527298 1 points 1 points (+2|-1) ago 

It sounds like your husband is an asshole.

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[–] Funkypurplekitty [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I mean we all can be at times now can we not? But no he is not an asshole and I'm not sure why me asking God to be what my husband needs me to be would insinuate that.

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[–] 9527379 3 points -2 points (+1|-3) ago 

If it isn't obvious how to please your husband and you have to evoke god to do it, he's an asshole.

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[–] Nadeshda 1 points 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

Just curious, you married?

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[–] 9527604 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Yes

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[–] AnmanIndustries 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Uh, is it just me or does this guy look uncomfortable in the picture?