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[–] commonsenseisded 2 points 6 points (+8|-2) ago 

This is very true, growing up I fell into the trap and it ended with children from failed broken relationships. It took my fiance, Voat and religion in that order to break the cycle.

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[–] AnmanIndustries [S] 2 points 3 points (+5|-2) ago 

That is good to hear. Better to have been lost and found, than lost still.

Often, a good woman can undo a lot of damage. Voat and religion can go either way depending on... things.

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[–] commonsenseisded 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Thanks, I understand what your saying. Growing up I wouldn't say I was an atheist, I believed in god. It was more I hated him. I was lost. The only regret is not being this person when my other kids where growing up. I try to instill it onto them on the weekends, but the weekdays of nothing but negative influence is more than i myself can handle.

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[–] gazillions 1 points 5 points (+6|-1) ago 

My perception from looking at long term marriages among the people I know, is that the couples that stay married didn't have a lot of experience sleeping around; either one of the couple. That doesnt't mean high school sweethearts don't ever get divorced, just that I can tally the numbers and reckon the odds, by what I see.

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[–] Empress 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

It's true. Good post.

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[–] QuickAnims 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Well the reason is most likely because you dont want a wife anymore. You know you can get it anywhere, why stay and be limited to one.

Obviously this doesn’t work out when you get old and your standards stay the same.

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[–] mrfetus 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Women have a lot more to offer than sex, I promise.

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[–] AnmanIndustries [S] 1 points 3 points (+4|-1) ago 

why stay and be limited to one.

It is a basic of moral requirement for a healthy family. A healthy family is a basic requirement for a healthy society. C

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[–] carbanara 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Hook up culture is not new, in fact its very old. Its the cromagnon way of life. Its an animalistic reaponse to sexual stimulation. Its a degeneration to primitive man.
Defunding the illusion will shake the entirety of our culture.

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[–] AnmanIndustries [S] 2 points 0 points (+2|-2) ago 

Well, the concept is not new. But in its rampant state of acceptable in our western culture it is. And you have already explained it quite well.

Its an animalistic reaponse to sexual stimulation

And animalistic responses are all sin. Animals kill each other, practice polygamy, steal, incest, kill their young, some kill their young just so they can have sex again, etc. Mankind must be different from the animals to remain as we are.

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[–] dooob 3 points 1 points (+4|-3) ago 

It is the other way around, it destroy women's chance of finding a decent man.

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[–] 4775795f4d616e 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Does both.

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[–] AnmanIndustries [S] 1 points 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

Other poster is correct, it does both. Both parties learn behaviours and expectations that are contrary to a healthy relationship and only allows them to create unhealthy relationships. Which of course, do not last or are extremely... uh... unhealthy.

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[–] 6cd6beb 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

I did some counting the other night and realized the number of women I've slept with is higher than I'd thought; I'm afraid it's warped me a bit.

I'm not even sure there are women out there with zero or only a few sexual partners, and even if there are I'm probably not high on their list because of my promiscuity. I'm not mad about that, but disappointed about my prospects for the future.

I've been sick all weekend and it just makes you think. I can take care of myself most of the time, but not all the time. Who's around then?

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[–] AnmanIndustries [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

If you think what youve done is bad and you act going forward as if it was, then you still have some chance of change.

There are no differences mentally and emotionally in regards to promiscuity between males and females. Both may manifest in differnet ways, but bother do the same kind of damage. Women have to go through the same change to fix this issue, as a man does. There are plenty of women out there with 0 or low sexual partners. You just dont see them or hear them because they have no desire to be loud and showy. With a genuine redemptive mentality, you may still have a chance.

Unfortunately you have given yourself a handicap. Even if you do not believe in the Christian god, the principles of sin exist for a reason. But you can undo some of the damage done.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder 2 points 0 points (+2|-2) ago 

This! AND ruining someonelses wife at the same time.

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[–] mrfetus 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Mormon?

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

No, that would be ruining two wives at once.

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