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[–] derram 0 points 17 points (+17|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Yes, the only people who say otherwise are feminists trying to excuse their own bullshit.

Society has always looked down on promiscuity of both sexes.

The only difference is that promiscuity in women has always been seen as harmful to themselves while promiscuity in men has always been seen as harmful to women.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder [S] 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Well put.

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[–] Mr_NoSkill 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

A non-bot comment from @Derram? I knew you were a real person! I feel special. Just a little.

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[–] lorlipone 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

I fucked around quite a bit as a young man, and it never brought me anything but cringy memories and regret (Thankfully no STDs).

It seems worth it, because your hormones make you feel like you're going crazy. It's not.

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[–] madmardigan 2 points 9 points (+11|-2) ago 

It's about satisfying your personality type. Some men enjoy building, some enjoy hunting. Each has their pros and cons, both personally and to society.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder [S] 1 points 16 points (+17|-1) ago 

Some men enjoy sitting on their asses. It's a personal choice, but it doesn't build society.

Personally I'm libertarian so I don't care what you do - I do care that we are telling kids that it's OK to whore around and there is no cost, no consequence.

There is always a cost, to everything. There is a cost to living a noble life, there is a cost to being a whore. Do you want to pay it now or later. By investing in virtue it costs you pleasure in the moment, but you stand to gain so much more over the course of your life.

Just be honest about what you are doing. If you can't be honest about it, why are you doing it? Ya know?

I get preachy about this shit because everyone else seems to be lying and the damage to that is immense. By the time you've figured out that you've fucked up it's too late to really change much.

I've only been with one woman. The question, "have I missed out?" has gnawed at me some, but I can take a trip to Venezuela and answer that. I still have choices - not that I want to choose that. I've come to the conclusion that it is all pretty much the same. But if you find a girl worth keeping, worth of being a mother to your children - and she dumps you because you have no self control, that loss is forever.

I had a horrible Dad, my Wife had Horrible parents. It was kind of our joint mission to be better parents. (The bar wasn't that high) I know that there are so many ways I could improve and be a better dad, but it is a start.

I didn't have anyone to tell me shit about life or what to expect. My hopeless naivety saved me. I could have scrapped the bottom of a few barrels and gotten some action, but not doing that allowed me to meet that woman who is a good mother to my children. She fucking makes them pajamas every Christmas. Soooo, would I give that up so I could go back in time and fuck middle aged fat ladies? No. And with that 'confidence' I guess I could have scored someone closer to my age or have fallen into the single mother trap. Have I really missed out on anything -- no.

So madmardigan (forget all you know, or think you know.) Probably more than you wanted for a response but you have to be open at some point.

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[–] madmardigan 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

No, the length is fine.thank you for the response.

I was thinking in terms of the business model. Some people are explorers(inventors), some are builders(developers), and then there are managers. Most people can't satisfy all three or there are people better suited.

I think whoring around is the exploring using that energy in the only way available. That type of personality is necessary in a given situation, but used toward an improper goal can be dis-functional towards society.

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[–] 11721318? 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

She fucking makes them pajamas every Christmas. 

Yup, a good mother. Congrats mate, raise those younguns well!

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[–] fuckingmockies 0 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago 

Hear, hear.

Everything you do is an example for your children. Even the things you do before you have them.

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[–] 11721476? 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Sleeping around really does affect one's ability to pair-bond. One of the biggest lies being spread today is that you have sample as many partners as possible to find "the one". It may well be too late for me, but my advice to a younger man would be to join a church, go to a tech school instead of a four year college, find a stable girl with a good heart, and wife her up ASAP so you don't find yourself perusing the flotsam that washes up on the shores of the dating pool at 30.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

That also implies the only thing to marriage is sex. Not true.

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[–] Shieldmaden 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

So true. Women like to feel safe and we know a guy who indulges in whoring doesn’t offer a lot of that—we’ve long since caught on to the fact it tends be hard for men to stop whoring once they’ve started. Basically, tradwives don’t like the idea of settling down with whores any more than you do.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Love the username. You are a fierce Viking princess with Lagatha’s battle hair! In my mind anyway.

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[–] Shieldmaden 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Thanks. And your mind is in the ballpark...

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[–] Asinthe 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

I always been telling this and got dv to hell. Why a good girl would settle for a man whore? But i have been always given "its biology", "it doesn't affect men" etc bullshit.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder [S] 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Yeah. I’ve heard plenty of that.

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[–] MaxAncap 1 points 1 points (+2|-1) ago 

You better not downvote those who say how this turns out.

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