This is not a space to complain about the decline of the world, this is a space about building yourself as a man.
Use this sub to share tips, tricks, stories, and to ask questions about how to be a better and more inspiring Husband/Man.
If you're the type of man who wants a wife that:
Serves you in the morning like a mother,
Loves you in the day like a sister and
Pleases you every night as if you were gone for a year,
Then be prepared to show her why she should rely on you and not another man instead.
Being a real man takes work, dedication, and humility; all the while still keeping your manhood. No lady likes a flake. No lady likes arrogance. Your lady does not want to be your mother. All of those things will erode the feeling of safety and security that you're supposed to provide her with.
And never get this twisted: Being a man is not about how much money you make, but about how competent you are in everything you do.
Take care of yourself, take care of your belongings and take care of your family. While she does not belong to you, your wife/girlfriend did choose to be yours over any other guy. You must never forget that. It takes a lot to make her choose someone else after you, so don't give her constant reason to doubt her choices.
Finally, keep in mind that your actions will always speak louder than your words and will be a guide for your children as well as for your wife.
Above all, keep it classy and civil. If you can't govern yourself in a simple disagreement, how can you expect your lady to see you as the stable man that she and her children need?
You're only as good of a man as what you bring to the table and are willing to take away.
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[–] AnmanIndustries 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
The biggest problem with marriages is that no one these days goes it biblically. That is, the only way you are allowed to get out of a marriage is if he/she cheats on you. No one treats it with this level of severity. You must be 100% sure this woman is for you, because in gods eyes if she is not and you divorce her, youve screwed up. And it is because so few people believe in god or hold him up to his words (this is all in the christian bible), that so many marriages fail.
Marriage is serious and must be treated more severely than moving to a new country, having a kid, moving into a new career, or killing a man.
[–] SirDigbyChikenCaesar [S] 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Yes, that is what we have to do.
[–] AnmanIndustries 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
YOU MUST BE... 100%... NO DOUBT. ZERO DOUBT. Any doubt and you must talk to her about it. If you decide on a prenup, she is not the one. A prenup is made of 100% doubt. But dont be like, we should get one, and then she is like, no no, dont worry and just blows it off. No, nothing can be "blown off" (get your mind out of the gutter). YOU MUST COMMUNICATE.