This is not a space to complain about the decline of the world, this is a space about building yourself as a man.
Use this sub to share tips, tricks, stories, and to ask questions about how to be a better and more inspiring Husband/Man.
If you're the type of man who wants a wife that:
Serves you in the morning like a mother,
Loves you in the day like a sister and
Pleases you every night as if you were gone for a year,
Then be prepared to show her why she should rely on you and not another man instead.
Being a real man takes work, dedication, and humility; all the while still keeping your manhood. No lady likes a flake. No lady likes arrogance. Your lady does not want to be your mother. All of those things will erode the feeling of safety and security that you're supposed to provide her with.
And never get this twisted: Being a man is not about how much money you make, but about how competent you are in everything you do.
Take care of yourself, take care of your belongings and take care of your family. While she does not belong to you, your wife/girlfriend did choose to be yours over any other guy. You must never forget that. It takes a lot to make her choose someone else after you, so don't give her constant reason to doubt her choices.
Finally, keep in mind that your actions will always speak louder than your words and will be a guide for your children as well as for your wife.
Above all, keep it classy and civil. If you can't govern yourself in a simple disagreement, how can you expect your lady to see you as the stable man that she and her children need?
You're only as good of a man as what you bring to the table and are willing to take away.
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[–] nimrodthegreat 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
How are you supposed to protect yourself from crazy gold diggers? What is there to stop a bitch from marrying you, popping out 2+kids and then divorcing you too the tune of 18yrs of "child" support?
[–] AnmanIndustries 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
This comes up a lot and the only real answer is with communication. You must talk to your woman about everything that is even semi important to you. You must engage mentally with everything you have. At the moment there is a sign of tension, disagreement or possible breakdown in a relationship, you MUST discuss it with her in full. Her response to these things will determine if she is suitable or not.
[–] SirDigbyChikenCaesar [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago (edited ago)
This is an excellent question, it would be a good post both here and on v/traditionalwives. Study her, study her family. Are her parents living how you want to live? Did she go to college? There could be a lot going on under the surface if she did. Did she have her fun and wants to settle down? What are her friends like? I personally don't trust women that change how they speak when a man enters the room, her voice becoming a higher tone. That's a two face.