This is not a space to complain about the decline of the world, this is a space about building yourself as a man.
Use this sub to share tips, tricks, stories, and to ask questions about how to be a better and more inspiring Husband/Man.
If you're the type of man who wants a wife that:
Serves you in the morning like a mother,
Loves you in the day like a sister and
Pleases you every night as if you were gone for a year,
Then be prepared to show her why she should rely on you and not another man instead.
Being a real man takes work, dedication, and humility; all the while still keeping your manhood. No lady likes a flake. No lady likes arrogance. Your lady does not want to be your mother. All of those things will erode the feeling of safety and security that you're supposed to provide her with.
And never get this twisted: Being a man is not about how much money you make, but about how competent you are in everything you do.
Take care of yourself, take care of your belongings and take care of your family. While she does not belong to you, your wife/girlfriend did choose to be yours over any other guy. You must never forget that. It takes a lot to make her choose someone else after you, so don't give her constant reason to doubt her choices.
Finally, keep in mind that your actions will always speak louder than your words and will be a guide for your children as well as for your wife.
Above all, keep it classy and civil. If you can't govern yourself in a simple disagreement, how can you expect your lady to see you as the stable man that she and her children need?
You're only as good of a man as what you bring to the table and are willing to take away.
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[–] twee [S] ago (edited ago)
Like the article said, being an Alpha Male and a supportive husband to a CEO wife are not mutually exclusive; just extremely rare. It's all in how you decide to handle the dynamic. She's a CEO? Be equally and consistently as powerful in other areas that she can't tread in (like the example of overseeing renovations) while both of you take care of the house and kids together.
Plan like an Alpha at all times: have contingency and backup plans for yourself, your own private bank account and your own identity outside of being a husband/father.
Stay physical (especially with her) and physically active. That will remind her why she's with you and that she could lose you if she doesn't behave.
What will you really teach your kids if housekeeping is all you have?
And remember, money doesn't necessarily equal power.
Best quotations I found in the piece:
Edit: adding quotations