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[–] Shitelady [S] 0 points 16 points (+16|-0) ago 

Luckily I don't, but even weekend trips home are impossible. I refuse to deal with her again, I value my sanity too much.

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[–] fancypantsmanface 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

I'd say run from that shit it's not worth it but a slow saunter would probably do just fine.

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[–] Shitelady [S] 0 points 19 points (+19|-0) ago 

It's just the last straw. So far this summer she's physically assaulted my pregnant sister because she yelled at her to tidy away her Christmas jumper that had been hanging on a kitchen chair for like 5 months, she threw a huge fit that my sister asked me to be godmother instead of her and demanded that she get the job instead, she's decided she's moving to London but insisting my parents pay for her apartment over there, and she accused my niece (who was 5 at the time) of bullying her and screamed at her until she cried because she told her her tummy was very big.

And all this is on the back of her year-long stint as world's worst bridesmaid at my sister's wedding last September, which resulted in both the wedding and bachelorette party both being called off briefly because she caused such drama and my Mum sided with her.

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[–] zalithed 0 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago 

If I was your mother I'd be wondering if it was too late for that abortion.... (I am a parent, if my daughter ever gets like this, I'm cutting her off and she can go live in the wild for all I care. I'll raise her to a human adult, if she becomes a human adult I like, I'll keep helping her and loving her. If she becomes something else, looks like I needed a better 18 year job.)

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[–] fancypantsmanface 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Fuck... That's exactly the kind of person you'd want to raise you kid if something were to happen to you...

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[–] hypercat 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

did you tell this story already? I have read a few about fat bridesmaids but not sure if it was yours.

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[–] Anther 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Wow. Family life can be tough. I personally don't talk with mine. The drama was crippling me. Whilst it may hurt in the short-term; from the sound of it you could do a lot worse than to cut her out of your life completely.

It sounds as though she is not going to change. That can sometimes be hard to accept; not least because you'd like to see how she could be. But the truth is that she is most probably always going to be selfish, and expect the world to look after her. That isn't your fault.

Whatever you choose to do going forward; I wish you luck!

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[–] Shitelady [S] 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

My parents are not nice people; they're both very narcissistic. Fatness is the baby though, so she gets away with murder. I'm the eldest (27) and get blamed for basically anything that goes wrong. The only way I can keep a relationship with my parents is at a large distance, with infrequent contact. Somehow Fatness has inherited all their negative traits and seems to have zero redeeming qualities. Even living 90 minutes away and only visiting every couple of months, she manages to get under my skin. Within an hour of seeing her my blood is boiling. I have another sister who I adore and she feels the same. Fatness has been banned from her house and is not allowed babysit her kids because my shitlady sister can't stand her for more than 15 minutes.

I went out of my way this summer to try to patch things up with her, as there was a lot of drama in our family (suicide, epilepsy, cancer, pregnancy, strokes) and she is planning to move to London soon. I was hoping we could all grow up, realise the importance of good relationships, and start over so she could leave on good terms. But all she did was use me for lifts and money. My other shitlady sister who is pregnant did the same thing, and after Fatness physically assaulted her over a jumper, she disowned her. My Mum tried to talk her into giving her another chance, which she did, and then Fatness pitched a fit when shitlady sister and her husband asked me to be godmother to her baby, and not her (sidenote, she has a goddaughter and she forgets her birthday every year).

It's been a very dramatic summer! But Fatness is moving to London (with my Mum paying her rent there of course) in a few weeks, and my shitlady sister and I plan to get on with our lives as if she doesn't exist. And then I will go back to tolerating my parents from afar. I have also had enough drama and I refuse to engage any more.

Families can be such a pain in the ass.

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[–] Anther 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

They certainly can! The occasional rant about it can be cathartic though!. It sounds like your situation is soon going to take care of itself anyway. Here's to better things around the corner.

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[–] sharkxie 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

I have a terrible relationship with my older sister... did you ever get people telling you when you were young that "everything will work itself out when you guys get older and you guys will get along when you're both adults" ?

I hated that.

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[–] MelbnMurse 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I'm so sorry you have had to deal with that, not that a strangers words over the Internet mean much, But I mean that. I know you said your fine health wise with the cancer scare but I still wish you the best in that and hope it remains all good.

On another level, if anything happens with your butter golem sister can we get an update I would very much like to read any hilariously horrible antics she may get up to

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[–] Shitelady [S] 0 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago 

One day I will work up the courage to tell you guys about Fatness the bridesmaid and my shitlady sister's wedding. It was 11 months ago but I don't think I'm over it yet...

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[–] ClairityDX 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Take all the time you need, Shitelady. We'll all be united by our mutual hatred of adipose abominations.

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[–] Nukem 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

What a disgusting prideful little shit. I'm sorry you have to have a sister like that.

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[–] IIsAShloff 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Wow. Just wow, seriously. I am so angry and sad for you over having to endure that selfish pig. internet hugs

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[–] Shitelady [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Well not anymore, because I'm refusing to be around her again! Thanks :)

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[–] Gaka 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Just...holy fucking shit. This is so bizzare Im actually finding it difficult to believe it's true. Like, my brain just cannot comprehend it. Thank fuck you're gonna cut that waste of space out of your life.

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[–] TinyTinaTrumpsAll 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Wow.. that's a whole other level of delusional entitlement. I hope you blocked her on Facebook after that. Sorry you're dealing with this OP. I have a sister like that too, and even though I love her, I hate who she is and avoid being around her. I hope things get better for you.

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