Oh god, this bitch I lived with for 9 months was hands down THE most foul human being I have ever encountered and I have seen some SHIT in my 22 years. This will be long but I will try to keep it short. Sorry in advance for the wall of text but this fucking individual though, holy shit.
'K' we will call her was a narcissistic 26yr old female, about 5'5 200lbs, gained weight because of a broken ankle a few years ago that didn't heal well and she couldn't afford to fix it, medical care is expensive where I live and we have had MORE public health cuts lately. K had lived on the streets during her teenage years because she had a mother who was so dumb that I have no words, fed her two daughters tomato sauce on undercooked pasta for spaghetti bolognese (sketti an' buttur!) and overboiled veg which caused K to have a fucked up idea of nutrition. She had a bad start in life I'll admit but I have met people who lived in slum-like situations and worked THEIR ASSES OFF to get out of it. Mad respect to them.
K however wanted everything on a silver platter. She was too lazy to work and had been on the unemployment benefit since she could qualify for it. She quit her 5hr pw job after two weeks because it was 'time consuming and the owners were mean". She also stole kitchen tools from the establishment, it was a restaurant (good lord she would've brought their rating down to an F) and proceeded to sit on her ass for literally months afterwards. She never owned bedsheets and slept straight on the mattress with uncovered pillows too which got 24hrs of use because the bitch never got out of bed. She washed her clothes once every few weeks, changed clothes every few days and I caught her showering TWICE in the whole time I lived there. After three months I also found out she didn't wear underwear, I wasn't told, I found out because of the distinct smell. FUCK MY LIFE.
K lived on mac'n'cheese with bacon pieces, Dominoes pizza (which was incidentally across the street from our flat) and would occasionally make a roast (twice in the 9 month flatting situation) which she would not share and NEVER clean the dishes despite them being MINE THEREFORE MY MOTHERS. Neither her nor the other flatmate (my partner at the time) did very much cooking so it was always me making flat meals and rinsing, filling the dishwasher etc.
She avoided the 3 monthly flat cleaning prior to inspection (AND the final clean) like CLOCKWORK, would leave electronics on all the fucking time and even racked up a $1200 power bill over winter due to having tv, xbox, laptop, dehumidifier and heater on 24/7 and using the dryer that we couldnt afford to run but that was in my partners name so w.e not her problem right? She was in control of the flat account and I had a very strong suspicion that she would lie to us about bills to get money out of us to fill her face with pizza and copious amounts of cheap cider which was at least 5 times a week.
K also had an indoor cat whose litter tray was very close to Ks bed (ew) but was emptied once a fortnight if lucky. The cat was so traumatized that it didn't know how to behave around anyone other than K and frequently peed and shit on my furniture and in my room, attacked me and my partner randomly, K denied this every single time. I'm not one to hate an animal for something trivial so I mean it when I say this FUCK THAT CAT.
She always had her trailer trash friends over and I know for a fact she had a drinking problem. We had many 'chats' about her friends getting the fuck out and not living on our couches but nothing ever changed. The shit hit the fan when a new friend showed up who had just gotten off home detention! YAY! He sold drugs, and not just the 420 kind, the kind that was basically untested pharmaceuticals.He broke furniture and the gate, disrespected me and my partner, called me a 'feminazi' (lol what?) and was just as filthy as K.
When a close friend of my partners passed away (and by passed away I mean killed himself) a week before Halloween K decided that everyone was an asshole for gathering together on the 30th to cry on each others shoulders after the funeral. Why? Because it was her birthday and she was obviously more important than us needing to grieve for our friend? /s. What the fuck, right?
I basically ended the tenancy when I asked her to do the dishes she had left for seven days, knowing she would half ass it I stood over her and when she asked why I told her that she was a filthy, lazy, unhygienic pig and I needed to make sure she actually did it right so she threw a plate at my head. How dare I expect to live in a clean, tidy house with caring, respectful flatmates right? I called the agent 10 minutes later and picked a move out date. Fuck her, I will not be treated like that.
K would also bitch about her weight several times a day, it was never her fault she was fat, can't work out because ankle injury (cut calories? change diet?) mum gave her shit nutrition ideas, healthy food was expensive etc everything you would expect. She is actually the reason I found FPH, she used Eddit and loved it, of course, and one day she started going on about these mean people who hated the 'thinly challenged' and were mean for no reason. She is probably stinking up the HAES ship right now as it sinks.
Obviously I was traumatized and do not wish to have flatmates ever again, I'm back home recovering from this shit right now. Never in my life have I experienced such disrespect, dishonesty, childishness and general trash. I'm angry at myself for ignoring so many mental red flags and just accepting the living conditions that i was subjected to. I have had shitty fat friends before but never as filthy as her, good fucking lord I hope to never see that trash again. I believe some people are better than others yes, but it is a choice. It is not decided by race, gender or social class etc. If you CHOOSE to be a disgusting piece of trailer trash and throw your hands up and go "its not my fault my life it shit and I don't know how to change it" then it never will. K will forever be a lumpy bag of human garbage on the U.B. and living below the poverty line.
I learned a valuable lesson but wish it didn't have to come in such disgusting packaging.
Traumatized for life, I mean Angxrs