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[–] Redditsdead 1 point 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

I agree with your sentiment. I recently had surgery and the only people who knew were my gf, parents and bro. They only found out right before I went in. Friends only found out afterwards, on what was supposed to be my normal day off, when they were just checking in to go do something. I told them to not even bother coming by as I was just laid up and chilling for the first week.

I don't begrudge those that want to be surrounded by friends and to have support. I'm there for them if they want me there. I just don't need it.