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[–] Sanji 4 points 9 points (+13|-4) ago 

Don't fall for the marriage trap even if you find a very attractive woman.


[–] middle_path 3 points 41 points (+44|-3) ago 

I really dislike the way most voaters see marriage. My wife is my best friend , we've been together for 14 years, have a wonderful son, and I would not be happier if I were single or just playing the field. Do what works for you, buy laying down a huge blanket statement like this is unnecessary.


[–] Plavonica 0 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago 

You are the increasingly rare exception.


[–] babimbang 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

ditto. Marriage is not without its own difficulties, but if you marry the right woman, a true helpmeet, it is inconceivable to live without her.


[–] AverageAmerica 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

The thing is, you can do all of that without an arbitrary legal document.

If you really love someone you let them be free. True love is a partner that is free to go anywhere but they stay with you. If things change, and the other person isn't happy anymore, I don't want them to be a prisoner of my love.


[–] ThisIsMyRealName 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Same here, ten years though. We dated for two years before getting married and waited to have a kid until two years after. I think a big problem a lot of people have is that they jump in head first and have no idea what they're really getting themselves into.


[–] InnocentBystander 1 points 1 points (+2|-1) ago 

I will never put my foot in that bear trap.
Life is good. I'm not gonna fuck that up.

I make it clear when I begin dating a woman that I will never marry, so if that is a deal breaker for them then they should go.