Perfect coupling guidelines for avoiding betrayal, divorce, STD's and not becoming a loser walking dead
It is important to understand the causes and effects of sexual excitement:
1 - Subjective: when sexual attraction is caused by an unusual, exotic person and leads to arbitrary, subjective emotional excitement, overwhelming reason by producing adrenaline, which turnins off rationality and objectivity. This kind of copulation is detrimental, because mentally debilitating and ends with mental tiredness. Every incompatible couple is unstable, because adrenaline abuse becomes intolerable, when the brain becomes tired and needs to rest. Adrenaline causes delusional, detrimental pleasure.
2 - Objective: when sexual attraction is caused by a similar, familiar person and leads to rational, objective emotional relaxation by producing dopamine and putting naturally the brain in an equilibrate state of nirvana. This kind of copulation is beneficial, because mentally restorative and ends with mental relaxation. Every compatible couple is stable, because the dopamine cannot be abused and becomes welcome, when the brain becomes rested and invigorated. Dopamine causes actual, beneficial pleasure.
Finding a psychologically and physiologically compatible soulmate:
Soulmates look as much possible as siblings, have equal intellect and social status.
Physiologically: Similar genetics, same complexion of physiognomy, skin, hair, eyes and body.
Psychologically: Similar intellect, same IQ, tastes, interests, ambitions, spirit, education, erudition.
The first date must be used for meaningful detection of the possible soulmate:
As soon as somebody looks like a genetic soulmate, start discussion about favorite songs, books, movies and videogames, it is helpful to discover if it's a mental soulmate too. If there are similar choices and tastes involved, it is possible to ask further questions about religious, political and sexual orientations. If there are no conflicts, invite to a date. During the date detect the level of intelligence and erudition, and absence of brainwashing. The final questions must be about virginity and coupling.
Aposematic signs of troubled people to avoid as coupling partners:
In general avoid divorced single parents. It is a sign of inability to choose wisely.
Psychological: Impulsive, passive-aggressive behavior. Inability to communicate in a clear and concise way.
Physiological: Artificially shaped eyebrows that look unnatural. Unnatural colored hair. Unnatural hair cut. Long, painted nails. Excessive make up. Excessive use of parfume. Distasteful clothing and lack of taste in general. Vulgarity. Also self body mutilation by tattoos, piercing, botox, fake breasts, needless plastic surgery.