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[–] another_one_gonewild 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Coconut oil. It's one of the best lubes I've ever found, and it's a totally mundane item you can find in grocery stores. Awesome!
Remember that the clitoris is a tiny dick. No, it's not like a tiny dick, it is a tiny dick. It's made from the same bundle of nervous tissue, it just never gets very big without the addition of testosterone. It'll even get hard and expand a little when she's aroused! Run your tongue along the underside just like she does with you during a blowjob - it drives mine nuts.
When going down on a woman - many guys tend to do the "lamprey eel" thing and latch on to a specific point. Don't do that. If she's rocking her hips, it's because she's trying to change the angle/position where you contact. Instead of latching on to her, try to keep your position constant relative to the bed. This way she can grind against your face and position herself in whatever way works best. Remember that suction feels really good, so learn to breathe through your nose while using your mouth to continue pulling on that clitoris. If your tongue gets tired after a while, take a break and use your fingers - now that your mouth is free, talk dirty with her about how things are going!