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[–] crazyrabbits 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Not everyone will date during their life. Some people have essentially 0 potential for anyone. (speaking as one such person)

Jesus Christ, get up off your ass and socialize. It's not fucking difficult.

I mean there are a million reasons someone might have difficult approaching someone, whether it be anxiety, depression, a broken sense of self worth caused by a society that forces ideal body images on you.

The solution to that? Go out and find friends. Hang out with people you know and shake the hands of people you don't. If you look at society solely as a way to get tail, you're setting yourself up for failure every time.

It's about confidence. I'm sure you've judged your share of 'mismatched' couples. I am saddled with a very ugly past, am overweight, and no end in mental conditions that make becoming intimate a very difficult and scary endeavour. But I still meet people. You know what breeds confidence? Success. You know what breeds success? Trying. Start with non judgemental meetings, work out your social skills, and take it from there. And don't think for a second a relationship is endgame, it's just the beginning,

This is some real talk. No one there is going to take his advice.