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[–] culofiesta 2 points 66 points (+68|-2) ago 

Honestly, going to Reddit for love advice is like going to Charlie Sheen for monogamy tips.

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[–] battle 1 points 23 points (+24|-1) ago 

Seriously. Not to mention 95% of the time their advice to the OP is "break up with them". It's like they don't want anyone else's relationship to work out because they are all miserable themselves.

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[–] WhipDisco 0 points 20 points (+20|-0) ago  (edited ago)

I mean look at Reddits' demographic, 95% of them probably have never been in a serious relationship.

Also, I say this as a 22 year old who doesn't have jack shit for relationship advice.

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[–] ForgotMyName 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

I actually spent a fair amount of time trying to help people just because there was so much unbelievably horrible advice on there. Crap from people that had clearly only learned about relationships from watching idiotic TV shows rather than having any experiences of their own. Then there were the people that were clearly selfish IRL but told OP that they should just deal with whatever awful situation they were in so they could further their own agenda (as seen here). There were always a few angry people ready to tell them that ____ sex are all complete jerks. If it wouldn't break anonymity I'd say that the relationship advice subs should require some kind of age verification.

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[–] spookybm 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Among them, is Taylor Swift. ZING!

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[–] g-j-a 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

LOL. That right there is on the money.

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[–] hunt_the_fatties [S] 5 points 48 points (+53|-5) ago 

SRS-ers have entered the fray: They seem particularly furious that OP thinks that blowing dudes and pegging is feminine.

PROOOOJJJJEEEECCCCTTTTIIIIOOOONNNN

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[–] littlemikemac 1 points 12 points (+13|-1) ago  (edited ago)

Aren't they always saying gender is a spectrum? Pegging and giving head can be feminine relative to the type OP is interested in.

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[–] Foralltoosee 1 points 18 points (+19|-1) ago 

Woah, woah, woah. Those arguments are just meant to be attacks against people they disagree with, not evenly applied philosophies. The world can't actually function under their weird rules, those things are just meant to stir shit.

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[–] Al_Rubyx 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Cmon now, you say that like srsers have any internal logic. Don't tell them that it's mysogenistic(tm).

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[–] ASacrificialHerring 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

You possibly just blew the mind of someone somewhere who is stoned.

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[–] dingus 1 points 8 points (+9|-1) ago  (edited ago)

Pegging is a reversal of the normal roles in heterosexual sex, therefore it is feminizing for the man. Not sure why that's hard for you to grasp.

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[–] Rellik88 1 points 3 points (+4|-1) ago 

Yes simulating the act of a man putting his penis in a women is feminine.

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[–] 123_456 2 points 42 points (+44|-2) ago 

People need to realize this. It's your freaking life. When you're in a relationship there is give and take. If they have taken too much, or you do not like what they have done, or are doing, you are allowed to break up. You have no moral obligation to be in a bad relationship, or one that doesn't please you. This guy blew three dudes -- don't like that? Find someone else.

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[–] Nyx 1 points 34 points (+35|-1) ago 

A straight woman wanting to date a straight man ≠ homophobe. OP isn't terrified of gay people, nor is she condemning their lifestyle... she simply isn't attracted to gay/bisexual men and doesn't want to be in a relationship with one. And that's totally okay, because it's not a fucking crime to have preferences and standards when it comes to choosing a partner. I'm neutral about smokers and while I support their right to buy/smoke tobacco, I don't necessarily want to date or kiss someone who smokes a pack a day... but that doesn't make me a capnophobe. What the fuck.

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[–] 404_SLEEP_NOT_FOUND 1 points 8 points (+9|-1) ago 

I seriously think OP just doesn't want to die from AIDs. That's no joke at all either, a lot of gay men do that secretly (look up "Tea rooms") while maintaining a single GF/wife for convenience. Considering these guys have a high chance of getting HIV, they can then pass this onto the wife/GF they are duping. It's pretty disgusting really and only a blind homophile wouldn't understand that it's wrong.

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[–] sp00kygh0st 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Degenerates

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[–] Diavolo1988 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I think that is common for most heterosexual women, which I think is the reason who so much fewer men are bisexual compared to women, and I think it's where homophobia initially comes from. (a guy is afraid of being seen as bisexual as that would make it hard to attract women, thus he becomes afraid of spending time with homosexual men)

However, I do think all of that is biology and there is nothing we can do about it.

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[–] pauly_pants 4 points 33 points (+37|-4) ago  (edited ago)

technically this makes you a homophobe

didn't say you aren't allowed to be a homophobe, but you're still a homophobe.

you're making a big deal of this, it happened before he met you

I want off this ride.

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[–] Foralltoosee 1 points 15 points (+16|-1) ago 

I wonder if they would extend this logic to their own lives. "Hey, just so you know, I fucked a few dogs before we met. Weird beastiality phase, but it happened before I met you, so we're cool, right?"

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[–] WhipDisco 1 points 11 points (+12|-1) ago 

Hey you're really projecting some zoophobia, I know you may think you aren't but those statements are actually zoophobic.

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[–] mamwad 4 points 2 points (+6|-4) ago 

Dogs can't consent, other men can. Even SRS can see that there is a difference.

Not that I think this girl is a bad person for falling out of love after finding out about her boyfriend being a pole smoker. Love is shallow and fickle. This whole thing (including going to Reddit for relationship advice) just reeks of immaturity.

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[–] HoneyNutStallmans 1 points 10 points (+11|-1) ago 

The ride never ends.

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[–] thephantompoop 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Pls Mr bones

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[–] Capitol18 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

mr bones pls

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[–] ForgotMyName 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

They entirely skipped over the "irrational" part of the definition. She doesn't want to have to worry about her bf blowing other dudes. That's not irrational.

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[–] HeavyBrain 0 points 21 points (+21|-0) ago 

Best thing to make them shut up.

"I dont want to risk and get pregnant from oral, its my body ARE YOU MENSPLAININ TO ME WHAT TO DO ?" HE IS NOT ENTITELED TO MY BODY, what he is doing is literally rape, are you supporting rape ?

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[–] CthulhuFerrigno 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago  (edited ago)

That or just tell everyone that he held those guys down and blew them. I think their heads might explode with dissonance.

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[–] NikoMyshkin 0 points 15 points (+15|-0) ago 

oh my god those comments are deranged "TECHNICALLY YER A HOMOPHOBE JUSSS SAYYIN"

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[–] 0iamlordeyayaya0 0 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago 

This is why I hate SJWs. They act like the she isn't even allowed to honestly have feelings. Like nope, you have to be ok with this and marry him or you're a homophobe. And you can tell OP isn't exactly carrying around "God hates fags" signs in her free time. This just happens to personally turn her off and they basically try to shame her into pretending it doesn't.

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[–] UrCoolerOlderBrother 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

And dear god how could it not. I feel bad for the girl. She didn't know that every time she kissed what she thought was his soft lips she was wrong she was actually kissing his soft, dirty poop covered penis sucker..... poor girl. (And I say this cas I feel like chances are about 8/10 that the knob her bf was slobbing was an unwashed poop covered dastardly dirty dick!).......poor girlll

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