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[–] BlueDanube 1 points 45 points (+46|-1) ago 

Two sides to every story. If you need advice from reddit you're a fucking joke and probably part of the problem.

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[–] Broc_Lia 1 points 33 points (+34|-1) ago 

She's not looking for advice, she's looking for a mob to agree with her and tell her her husband's awful. Hence the one dimensional description of his faults.

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[–] Omnicis 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

On one hand I agree, she probably is changing the story so she can say shit like "all these people agree with me, look, you are an asshole for not being the parent i demand you be", but on the otherhand, if she isn't lying about his constant attempts to force everyone else to enjoy the smell of his shit, and if he thinks spending time with his kids is "a waste of time", he probably is an overgrown child himself.

I mean... how much soy do you have to drink to think that watching marvel movies and reading comics is a good use of time, but spending time with your kids outside of those tasks is a waste of time?

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[–] veriodd 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

Their insurance must be high over at Reddit. Just the wake of trampled bodies as they all tried to virtue signal the loudest. Some of them broke their own backs trying to bend over the wrong way, and sadly others suffocated way deep up inside her ass.

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[–] ShitArchon 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

See also: her unrealistic view of male mental wiring. It's normal for a husband and wife to live in separate spheres. That results in more fucking.

I guarantee this guy is henpecked, has low T levels, and never gets sex from her.

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[–] 7e62ce85 0 points 44 points (+44|-0) ago 

I have a working theory that beta males only have children by accident and mostly just to have sex. ("plz touch my peepee" as the white knight battle cry goes)

That said I can kind of understand why having ALL female children would not be super interesting. Women aren't in general. (before you kvetch none of you have a woman as a best friend and if you didn't have dick would not tolerate 95% of all women's existence) His kids dislike Lord of the Rings, but like some weird African witch cult stuff (peak woman thinking right there) surely Voat is not happy with this.

Still go to their fucking soccer games damn it. Cook with them. Basic stuff at least.

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[–] kneo24 0 points 23 points (+23|-0) ago 

Still go to their fucking soccer games damn it. Cook with them. Basic stuff at least.

This. Even if you live in a household surrounded by estrogen, that doesn't mean you can't find a way to bond with your kids just because they don't share your hobbies.

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[–] Samchay6 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

He's probably a fatty that is physically uncoordinated.

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[–] senpaithatignoresyou 0 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago 

I suspect that the kids might not be his, and he is aware of it. That is partly why she is having a shit fit. The first clue is that the oldest was born out of wedlock. Real big red flag right there.

Another possibility is that he is either cheating, or has a porn addiction. She sounds like the type of woman that would use three kids as an excuse to become fat, so he is slowly losing interest in his family and sex life.

The thing is, this is not the type of dirty laundry that you air out in public, especially the internet. She has demonstrated that she is white trash, and pretty much explained it out. I assume white because there is a person acting like a father, so at least the husband is white. Trashy women are only fun to screw with for a little bit, but are incapable of having a good family life or being good parents and partners. There is a reason why they were historically shunned in almost every society.

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[–] ViperCarbz 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

I suspect that the kids might not be his, and he is aware of it. That is partly why she is having a shit fit. The first clue is that the oldest was born out of wedlock. Real big red flag right there.

I'd love to see the amount of instant downvoats that would get.

She sounds like the type of woman that would use three kids as an excuse to become fat, so he is slowly losing interest in his family and sex life.

Banned.

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[–] gazillions 0 points 15 points (+15|-0) ago 

A therapist will fix everything is no different than the idea that a pill will fix everything.

All she has to do is get the kids to pursue independent interests and learn some self reliance. Stop teaching them that they need daddy's approval for their existence.

Read their own damn books.

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[–] ItGoesOnAnonAnonAnon 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Your first point is spot-on, but I have some disagreement with your second. Personal independence is a fantastic thing to teach children for sure, but teaching them to be responsible about it can be difficult to do properly; with that family dynamic as it is, having the mom teach independence with little input from their (terrible) father can easily lead to the "I'm a strong woman that don't need no man" mindset, with the strong potential to include 'Daddy Issues' in their relationships.

It's still probable that they could turn out well-balanced, just a little more difficult without some form of properly applied masculine guidance to demonstrate how men in their lives should be acting towards them.

(That last bit sounds a little weird to me contextually and gramatically, so just in case, the context is from a TradFamily perspective.)

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[–] gazillions 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

I would never downplay the importance of the masculine role in a family, but this guy isn't fulfilling it anyway.

I've known many moms that stepped into that role themselves and provided the pick yourself up and stand up for yourself masculine influence they thought their kids needed and none of those kids ended up dancing on a pole for dollar bills.

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[–] ShitArchon 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

All she has to do is get the kids to pursue independent interests and learn some self reliance. Stop teaching them that they need daddy's approval for their existence.

Read their own damn books.

Expecially if a kid turns out to be GNC in some way. Those kids would love to have their parents leave them alone.

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[–] NiggerJusticeWarrior 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

what the hell is gnc?

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[–] NeoGoat 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

A therapist will fix everything is no different than the idea that a pill will fix everything.

Granted, one should never presume things are silver bullets. However, therapy does have the potential to help resolve problems, whereas pills are more symptomatic relief with potentially horrid side effects. In earlier times, the function we call therapy would have been practiced by grandparents and elders. Also, nature itself would remind people that they can sit and bellyache if they want, but if they did not get off their asses and gather food, they would starve.

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[–] gazillions 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Licking the sidewalk has as much "potential" to help. There's no proof it does anything because there's no there there.

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[–] nobslob 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

Do a better job picking a father next time. I'm not sure what she expects the internet to solve for her.

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[–] ViperCarbz 1 points 4 points (+5|-1) ago  (edited ago)

He goes to work. Pays the bills. Is around for dinner most of the time. Goes to stupid school shit. Does not abuse her or the kids. Does not have a substance abuse problem. Has his own interests and hobbies the wife and kids don't give a fuck about. Overall does not sound like a bad guy.

I think she wants a bad boy and has a desire to be treated poorly. She can't handle the tame life she forced her husband into years ago after an unwanted pregnancy that may or may not be his.

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[–] ShitArchon 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

That puts things in excellent clarity.

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[–] boggle247 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Right? She should be talking to HIM and not getting advice from the internet.

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[–] Broc_Lia 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

She wants them to tell her he's a bad person and she doesn't have to feel guilty about whatever the real problem is.

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[–] Ifaptocomments 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

He has to be a better dad. I get not wanting to do all the girly things but seriously... Podcasts and refusing to go to soccer games, that is just shitty parenting.

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[–] the_sharpest_knife 0 points 17 points (+17|-0) ago 

She left out the part about them both weighing 400lbs+.

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[–] TrudeauianEyebrow 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

If the alternative is "Hamilton", I'll take podcasts. Or FM radio.

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[–] Broc_Lia 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

Sounds like she's laying it on a bit thick to me. Doesn't pass the sniff test/

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[–] MaunaLoona 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

She makes it sound like he's a cartoon villain.

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[–] lets_get_out_of_here 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

Some people just aren't parenting material 🤷‍♂️

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[–] lorlipone 1 points 8 points (+9|-1) ago 

"I'm a 3, and so is my husband. We married out of desperation, and now I wish he was a chad."

Fuck directly off.

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