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[–] Empress [S] 3 points 13 points (+16|-3) ago 

Mothers raise good children and fathers raise good adults. In my lifetime, I'd like to see the family court system dissolved and create penalties for skipping out on marriage. Women are the ones that most often seek divorce because their love tank feels empty or whatever. Divorce should only be granted in unusual situations like domestic abuse- not because you're sick of your spouse. Just my opinion.

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[–] 8567560? 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

Family court is basically a scam. All the lawyers and judges know each other, and there's no incentive to settle a divorce quickly. They capitalize on their clients' bitterness. What's worse is Court Appointed Child Advocates.

I've seen a lot of long, bitter, expensive divorces. The family court system really is a bad joke.

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[–] SaveTheChildren 3 points -1 points (+2|-3) ago 

What about if your frigid bitch wife won't ever put out for you? Something a lot of men deal with these days. You don't think divorce is in order? Or should you just cheat on her?

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[–] 8567493? 0 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago 

I always say women cheat emotionally, men cheat physically. If a man marries an emotionally needy woman and ignores that, she'll find validation elsewhere. If a woman marries a man with a high libido and stops putting out, he'll find that release elsewhere.

In my experience, when a woman isn't having sex with her husband, barring real medical or mental issues, she's already gone in her mind. If people aren't getting what they "need" from their spouse, it's easy these days to look elsewhere instead of fixing things internally. But where does it end? I always recommend marriage counseling to friends when divorce comes up in conversation. Most of the time, one or both parties are unhappy personally, and dragging his/her spouse down, too.

Why marry a "frigid bitch" to begin with? People get married to the wrong person and for the wrong reasons and are surprised that their magical fantasy wedding didn't fix all their problems. I don't think marriage is taken as seriously as it ought to be.

I wish more people would realize that marriage isn't based on some fantastical idea of "true love" and "soul mates," but on two people working towards common goals and building a life; like a business partnership.

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[–] Empress [S] 1 points 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

That's a tough one. Has her husband neglected his weight or his hygiene? That would be my first question. If not and he's kept up his part of the deal and his wife just doesn't like sex and refuses, then that seems to be a form of abandonment.

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[–] 8570479? 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Rape

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[–] Kcpedogate 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Love me some CS lewis!

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[–] jgardner 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

He saw the culture war long before everyone else did. He has great ammunition. Read all his books. I don't regret it. It's time to read them again!

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[–] Empress [S] 3 points -1 points (+2|-3) ago 

I think of this more of single mothers. As I mentioned, mothers raise good children and fathers raise good adults.

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