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[–] Ar_Nimruzir 0 points 16 points (+16|-0) ago 

Dude, I can't believe this shit. I read your story earlier today and was completely shocked. I don't really have a question, just wanted to say I am glad you made it out of there alive; it's nice to have you here with us on Voat.

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[–] Clayton [S] 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

I am glad you made it out of there alive; it's nice to have you here with us on Voat.

Thank you. I am glad to be here with all of you people.

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[–] Ar_Nimruzir 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

The DA told me that because I gave her my social security number it was not identity theft, and that they did not want to prosecute her for fraud.

You gave it to her in a state of extreme emotional duress at a time when, due to your condition, you were not able to make proper decisions. There must be legal recourse available for this situation. Have you spoken to any private attorneys about suing her and the DA as well?

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[–] RealGuy 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago  (edited ago)

It feels like shit when your ID, SSN, BANK INFORMATION was stolen. My dad got his credit card stolen from him, $500 lost out of his bank.

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[–] Clayton [S] 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

I agree. Everytime I go into my credit union to get a loan or if I open an account somewhere and they run my social security number it makes me feel like they are judging me as irresponsible. Luckily I have perfect in house credit with my Credit Union so I don't have any trouble getting loans from them.

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[–] RealGuy 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

That's good. Let's hope a new caregiver doesn't do it again and actually takes care of you.

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[–] p199y 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

hi there! this story sounds horrifying, like a episode of an amc drama serie...maybe you should write a boook about that. i have several questions:

  • how do you tried to commit suicide?
  • how do you got in the ER?
  • do you feel like you want to have revenge or you just dont care anymore about her as a person?
  • you have a job or kind of income?
  • what about your family? is there nobody around?

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[–] Clayton [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

how do you tried to commit suicide?

I tried to take a bunch of pills, then when I thought that didn't work, I started walking to a bridge when the pills kicked in and I passed out. Woke up in the hospital for a suicide attempt.

how do you got in the ER?

Not sure, probably by ambulance.

do you feel like you want to have revenge or you just dont care anymore about her as a person?

I would love revenge, but I don't know how to extract revenge without breaking the law.

you have a job or kind of income?

Currently disability, but I am in the process of starting up a PI and security company alongside my brother and dad.

what about your family? is there nobody around?

I am living with my dad and brother for the moment.

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[–] p199y 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

im happy you're still alive man! thanks for answering my questions and i really hope things are going good for you! stay strong! and good luck for you, your dad and bro with the company.

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[–] martiny 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Dude, that's fucked up. Hope you move on and this is resolved. What do you plan on doing next?

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[–] Clayton [S] 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

What do you plan on doing next?

Not much more I can do. I have exhausted all my legal options. I can't really sue her, she has no assets and works as a waitress so she makes next to nothing. I have taken steps to inform her employers of who she truly is. I don't want to get her fired, I just want to know that at the end of the day, I warned as many people as possible about her.

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[–] TheyKeepOnRising 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

That's disappointing, without taking any real action against her, what's to stop her from doing it again? You have an opportunity to make your loss mean something.

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[–] bobroland 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

So are you on medication now? Is there someone helping you with that?

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[–] Clayton [S] 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago  (edited ago)

So are you on medication now?

Yes, thankfully I am not on as many medications as I was. If my anger starts up again (usually the first sign) I have the medications on hand and all I have to do is call my doctor and get the dosages we did last time my anger started up. If we catch the symptoms early I won't lose touch with reality like I did. That was only the second time (and the last time so far) that I lost touch with reality. The first time was when the doctors first noticed the symptoms during my early teens.

Is there someone helping you with that?

Yes, I live with my father and brother at the moment.

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[–] crustydouchejuice 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Have you been in touch about any attorneys about taking civil action? If what you say is true you have a rock solid claim for damages.

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[–] bill.lee 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

That was my question. If she still lives in the area or can at least be located can you file a lawsuit?

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[–] laancelot 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Hey, I remember you from another AMA. Your story is incredible. Thanks for stopping by and sharing it.

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[–] Brachialis 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Oh wow, that's terrible. Just want to say glad you're still here :)

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