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[–] rickki6 [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

exactly ! he is a real POS. my mom is in a nursing home now since Jan, 5 min from my house. They had a virus, prob corona but they didn't do any testing for it so I can't say for sure plus who knows if the test would have been false positive, but no idea why home didn't test for corona. My mom was sick for 2 weeks, fever, disoriented , very angry when we spoke on the phone, confused, tired, depressed, didn't eat. I couldn't even have a convo w her on the phone, she couldn't handle it. She has early stage dementia but its early so she is ok with knowing me, etc. Great long term memory, just forgets a lot quicker now. For the past 10 days she has been back to her old self, just misses seeing me. Sucks but I drive by a few nights a week and talk to her thru her window since her bed in the room is window bed. lOl. The home also calls me video conference so that helps. I asked the Dr why no one did any corona testing . No answer.

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[–] ZombiClown 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Wow,sorry about mom.do you have power of attorney? If so force the Dr to prescribe HCQ under Right to try,I know it's tough ,fighting, always fighting with them.Make a list ,zinc,vitamin d,c,b12 so on and tell him the minimum he could do is provide the FDA requirement for these items.He will say that's for the nutritionist,you'll say, "Dr ,you know the patient cannot physically eat the volume of fruits and vegetables needed to absorb the minimum amount,and you outrank the nutritionist,so I'm telling you to prescribe these nutrients as medically necessary and if you do not agree ,I'm telling you she has the right to try them as your regimen has failed to provide results. " GodBless

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[–] VotingGodWins 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

You are def on spot when you talk about fighting with the nursing homes. my father passed away one year ago. he was in a home for 6 years, with lewy body dementia and we fought with the home constantly over just regular care for him. thank heavens my sister is an RN and could understand the medical side of all of it. it was horrible dealing with them.

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[–] rickki6 [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Thanks ! yes I have POA, did that with attorney as soon as I moved her back to NY in 2015. She called me one day in the afternoon on her way home from work, she got a job part time when she was 70 after my step fathered passed away. She was 3 blocks from her house, she was living w/my brother at the time, she was lost and panicked., couldn't remember how to get home. she was crying, confused. I said Houston, we have a problem. She retired, packed her shit and moved back to NY. Im going to ask the Dr about Right to Try, thanks for mentioning it. Before corona my mom is healthy as an ox, other than early stage dementia. This virus she had pissed me off! I kept telling the nurses something is wrong, I know my mom. she is too depressed, not in the right state of mind. My brother and sister said same to me and they don't speak to her everyday like I do.

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[–] tweety51 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

I am very sorry to hear of your mom's deteriorating condition. My dad died of Alzheimers and at the end he didn't know anyone. It's sad. I think your story attests to the fact that our immune systems are gloriously set up to help us overcome illness. I personally think we had Covid 19 before it officially was announced. You don't have a symptom where you can't taste food very often yet that was exactly one of my symptoms. I think this is why so many people have antibodies to this flu. Fortunately we all recovered but without testing who knows what we had? I just try to avoid doctors at all costs. This has been a nightmare for sure.

I read everything I could on Alzheimers and there are some people who are successfully reversing it. BUT it is very difficult to influence or treat anyone but yourself so I understand the difficulty. But I just had to know exactly what I could be up against later in life.

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[–] rickki6 [S] ago 

thanks tweety51. it took me awhile to come to grips with it. when she lived in AZ we spoke on the phone almost everyday and I really didn't think too much of it, always asking me the same question over and over after I would keep answering but our convo's were always short and sweet. when she moved back to NY on 2015 I was like OMG. It has gotten worse but not terrible and she is back here 5 years now. Dr told me everyone is different and he doesn't know when she will get really bad, its a process. Sucks to watch for sure ! I use to get so annoyed at her and then feel so bad about it. My mom and I are close. She and my step dad moved to AZ from NY back in 03 so I was very use to not seeing her but once/twice a year. When she moved back in 2015 I was the care taker, it was a lot for me to adjust to. I have no children , just myself, my BF John of 13 years and 2 dogs. Now my mom is here and depending on me and I'm losing my mind cuz she is losing her mind. It became a vicious cycle. I had to break it for my own sanity and hers of course. Luckily my mom is very cool, laid back person, not needy but now she needs the help. She fell this past Jan and fractured her L1. Hospital put her in this nursing home for rehab. She is now there permanently . I realized she can't live alone anymore, which I knew before she fell it was a matter of time. It was hard for her to adjust to in the very beginning being in a nursing home but she is super friendly and loves it now lOl. It is a great place so I feel at ease. I fear the end tho, of not knowing me. I fear it.