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[–] candtalan 1 point 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

Some of this sounds a bit familiar. It might be useful to stay centred, calm, non controversial if possible or at least avoid looking for or raising controversy. Stay kindly, gentle and clear. There is reason to be reassuring also. Understatement (unless clearly incorrect) is useful to promote some balance. You (and family) are not alone. Truth can be ****** scary & painful. We all need generous understanding hugs at some times too.