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[–] 17227077? 0 points 36 points (+36|-0) ago 

Yeah your wife is letting her emotions get the best of her. Good luck with that.

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[–] fuckmyreddit 0 points 39 points (+39|-0) ago 

This is good behaviour. It's the first step. Your wife will figure it out if you remain strong and solid.

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[–] trseeker 0 points 21 points (+21|-0) ago 

Yup, be a rock during turbulent times.

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[–] TRFBYTrC0mmies 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

I agree. Your wife’s brain is doing back flips right now. She can’t believe what she’s beginning to believe. Just be her foundation, and if possible, don’t bombard her with everything, instead let her come to you and then answer her questions as best you can. After enough of her questions have been answered, she’ll break through. And as we all know, once you see, there is no going back.

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[–] candtalan 1 point 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

Some of this sounds a bit familiar. It might be useful to stay centred, calm, non controversial if possible or at least avoid looking for or raising controversy. Stay kindly, gentle and clear. There is reason to be reassuring also. Understatement (unless clearly incorrect) is useful to promote some balance. You (and family) are not alone. Truth can be ****** scary & painful. We all need generous understanding hugs at some times too.

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[–] TheBRAINz ago 

It's all good. She'll get through it. See vid clip:

https://youtu.be/hA37Aed3yak?t=28