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[–] TheTrueTexan [S] ago 

and the point to that is? Basically if I tired of not experiencing life like I want here, then why not change it and just move is what I'm saying?

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[–] 5081023? ago 

I've moved a lot. I've also seen a lot of people move a lot.

I see the "I have to move to be happy" meme a lot, and it's very rare that it works out so well. Usually the things that need to change don't change, and the person just ends up exactly where they began.

The moves that work, in my experience, are ones that actually have significant strategy behind them. When I moved for a job that paid a bunch more, that helped. When I moved to be closer to work, that helped.

What I've found about moving to a more fun place is that you end up living there, which isn't always that much fun.

If you're not getting what you want out of life, then change your life. If a move is a specific and calculated part of that plan, then so be it. A move for its own sake is going to underwhelm you, and a move like this is going to be really difficult for a really long time.