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Everyone definitely has regrets. One thing I try to remember: "is dwelling on and stressing about the past helping me?" I can't change the past, but I can change the present, and stressing is not helpful (it actually releases cortisol and is bad for your health). As others have said- LEARN from your past, and you are doing the greatest good you can for your future.
I always was sad that my siblings didn't end up staying with their "first loves"- but one of their ex's turned into a SJW that tries to ruin peoples reputation if they have wrong-think, and the other is pretty indoctrinated. There are blessings in disguise. Also, depending on you belief system- there is a consciousness that is beyond us that can see all possibilities- and is guiding us. It might be so difficult at the moment, but just keep going towards your intentions and you will get where you want, although the path may look different than you expect. Love to you friend, be kind to yourself.
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[–] Ashra 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Everyone definitely has regrets. One thing I try to remember: "is dwelling on and stressing about the past helping me?" I can't change the past, but I can change the present, and stressing is not helpful (it actually releases cortisol and is bad for your health). As others have said- LEARN from your past, and you are doing the greatest good you can for your future.
I always was sad that my siblings didn't end up staying with their "first loves"- but one of their ex's turned into a SJW that tries to ruin peoples reputation if they have wrong-think, and the other is pretty indoctrinated. There are blessings in disguise. Also, depending on you belief system- there is a consciousness that is beyond us that can see all possibilities- and is guiding us. It might be so difficult at the moment, but just keep going towards your intentions and you will get where you want, although the path may look different than you expect. Love to you friend, be kind to yourself.