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[–] Nerdyschmerdyguy 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Maintaining good friendships shouldn't require crazy effort. Of course, you need to invest time in your friends but you also have to give folks the benefit of the doubt that when they can't make it, they can't for a good reason. All the friends I have give each other the benefit of the doubt and during our man periods, we reach out and get more information before passing judgement. It's amazing what being an adult about things can do.