I am probably above average in looks (I am no means in the one percent), but there plenty of the times when I try to help out of a friend in a club or even at a double blind date, and the attractive girl of the group tends to express interest towards me. I have tried ways into helping my friend; for example, by paying more interest into her friend than her, by mentioning that I have a girlfriend, and by also staying very quiet during conversations, but none of these don't seem to work.
The friends that I want to wingman are good people, and so I was wondering if there any tricks I can do to help my friends in obtain their target?
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[–] javierNelson 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
Like a bull in a china shop. Especially if you're not single. Get the girls to engage and then just talk up your friend, bring the conversation back to your buddy, especially if they're not the type to talk themselves up.
[–] huldu 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I think that they are more interested in you because you are the one taking the risk and showing confidence. Your friends need to participate as much as you, and should not stay in your shadow.
[–] wouldntsavezion 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Yeah, the others are right. You can only get her attention, your friend has to keep it.