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[–] crirninaI [S] 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

Yeah, you're probably right. I'm just angry. These girls are more likely to grow up and be the face of degeneracy.

The reality is that this is normal for middle school and likely will build character for my kid.

Thanks, friend.

[–] AmaleksHairyAss 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

As long as you're there for your daughter and really listen to her everything will work out fine.

[–] jewlie 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

This guy is right. Little girl drama is not far off from "adult women" drama. The woman brain stops developing at 16, this is why they always act like children and run off of emotion. Don't worry about it, with your proper guidance and telling her the sad truth that these girls will end up nigger sluts might brighten her day.

[–] projection 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Exactly.

[–] madmardigan 0 points 11 points (+11|-0) ago 

Is she in team sports. Help her build cooperative relationships with girls.

Also watch out for her taking solace in attention from young men as a means of finding validation. Being ostracized can easily lead to risky behavior to feel included.

Encourage her to be the better friend but not be used.

If her social group at school sucks, help her find better social groups through clubs, sports, or other activities.

[–] Diggernicks 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

We're not going to be producing any top notch future porn stars with that attitude.

[–] madmardigan 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

We got robot whores and deepfakes. Don't need women for that anymore.

[–] crirninaI [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Not yet, definitely want to get her in them this year.

Also watch out for her taking solace in attention from young men as a means of finding validation. Being ostracized can easily lead to risky behavior to feel included.

Solid point. She actually does not talk to boys at all, which I sometimes wonder might be an issue later. But I don't mind for now. We're pretty much the no-dating-till-marriagable-age type of household.

Encourage her to be the better friend but not be used.

Definitely. She needs to work on being the bigger person. Thank you.

[–] piratse 3 points 0 points (+3|-3) ago 

"No dating till marriage age." Are you a retard? No wonder no one likes your daughter. No fucking is fine to teach. No dating is retard status. Your first bf/gf SHOULD be in your teens. That's probably the most natural thing ever.

[–] Thisismyvoatusername 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

Having raised two daughters myself, all I can tell you is that 6th grade girls are uber-bitches. Middle school age is the worst, but really from around 4th grade to 10th or 11th grade, they play all sorts of stupid little power games with ever changing cabals. They exclude girls, then turn around and include them while excluding someone new. They constantly backstab each other. They constantly gossip behind each others’ backs. And they act like they alone don’t act the way all of them are acting.

All you can really do is try to help your own kid have a strong sense of self and not place too much emphasis on what others think. Still, it will cause anxiety and possibly depression. So keep a good eye on her.

Girls are at least as hard to raise as boys. Girls require all sorts mental work. Boys mostly just require the ability to fix drywall.

[–] Reed_Solomon 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

This is true because its basically how women are wired emotionally. Did you do something to annoy her one day? Now you're the most annoying person to have ever existed and I'll hate you forever.. This is why women look at men fighting and then being friends again and wondering what the deal is. Remember they can recall some highly obscure irrelevant thing when you're having an argument. I wonder if it is natural due to hormones or if it's a learned behavior after going through puberty and having to acquire those skills to deal with other females. Then again, there could be an evolutionary aspect to it, if women can't stand each other they're less likely to turn lesbian perhaps.

[–] KILLtheRATS 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

If you shut down their hypergamy, you don't have to worry about it

[–] Hand_of_Node 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

men fighting and then being friends again

I don't think so.

[–] crirninaI [S] 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Lol, I don't understand the end game of those girls. It just baffles me.

She's already anxious... Thanks very much, I'll watch out for that and keep your words in mind.

[–] Commie_Meta 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

There is no end game. The human female is a natural born democrat. They constantly try to tilt the social table to their and their group's benefit. The only hierarchy they have is a queen bee elected by mob rule.

[–] DishingShitLikeA 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

My dad made me patch them myself. Luckily my fist never found a stud. It did find a locker once. That was a boxer fracture. Always over girls. Ahhh young, hormonal... Romance.

[–] DasReich 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Boys mostly just require the ability to fix drywall.

I thought that's why we were importing Mexicans.

[–] silverplate 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Girls this age are mean and friendships can come and go within one school year. The sports team idea someone else had is a good one. If school is going to be painful, she'll need another venue where she can be appreciated. A club involving a hobby, Girl Scouts, really anything that will give her the opportunity to make a whole new and separate set of friends.

Good luck. I know how painful this can be to watch.

[–] peacegnome 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Girls are horrible to each other, find something outside of school for her to do socially (church, scouting, etc.). Martial arts is a good idea, and maybe take her shooting.

[–] Ulfghar 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

These are little girls. Girls and women are the most petty type of people and they get worse as it gets older. Your best bet is to do your best to make sure your girl doesn't become bitter and try and teach her to find friends who are good people.

[–] crirninaI [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

make sure your girl doesn't become bitter and try and teach her to find friends who are good people.

Good people are always sparse. I should not be surprised. Really, it's a lesson for the real world, isn't it?

Thank you.

[–] IPleadThe2nd 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

This is how girls act, and it will continue through high school. It's sad to have to watch tour child go through that. You're a good parent for handling it they way you have. Encourage her to be friends with boys. If she can get some solid male friends (and just be friends) she won't have to deal with the bitchy drama bullshit from being only around girls.

[–] crirninaI [S] 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Thanks for those kind words. It is hard. Those couple times she came home and was eerily quiet and started crying gave me... like chest pain or some shit. It hurts to see a piece of you in pain.

Encourage her to be friends with boys. If she can get some solid male friends (and just be friends) she won't have to deal with the bitchy drama bullshit from being only around girls.

Exactly, I wanted her to do this, but I think she is too shy. Currently, the norm is apparently for girls and boys not to mix. I hate to admit it, but she can be a sheep at times, and so if no one else hangs out with boys, she won't either.

Need to develop her nerd side to get her to quit being sheep. Could help with male friends and being able to overlook/dismiss drama.

[–] MuscularMayor 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Get her some sweet ass shoes and tell her to be nonchalant about them

[–] crirninaI [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Heh, got some Adidas kicks this year. Had to go in the women's section...damn time goes so fast.

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