Archived Older FWBs of Voat, how difficult is it to find that arrangement as you've gotten older? (AskVoat)
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Archived Older FWBs of Voat, how difficult is it to find that arrangement as you've gotten older? (AskVoat)
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[–] libby [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
My LTR SO and I have considered splitting and I am really positive that romance isn't my thing. I'm crazy about my SO but I'm really too much of a loner to make a romantic relationship work. If we do spilt, I'm trying to gauge how likely it is that I'll be able to have some enjoyable companionship and sex without having to invest too much emotionally (though more than a one night stand sort of thing). Doing stuff together, cuddling, and sex are all nice. I'm just concerned that beyond 30 it could be hard to find people interested. Sounds like that is an unfounded worry.
[–] Whiskey_In_A_TeaCup 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Yes, I think you will be pleasantly surprised. Particularly with those who already had a marriage or a long term relationship under their belt. Good luck to you whatever your outcome is.
[–] libby [S] ago
Thanks for the kind wishes. I'm hoping it works with my SO but it's hard to say; the damage may be irreparable. I've been in this LTR my entire adult life so I don't know a lot about the relationship market. Your experience is very helpful.