Archived Older FWBs of Voat, how difficult is it to find that arrangement as you've gotten older? (AskVoat)
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Archived Older FWBs of Voat, how difficult is it to find that arrangement as you've gotten older? (AskVoat)
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[–] GeneralBoobington 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I'm 32 and a chick; it's rather easy, actually. I think at my age we've all seen what happens when one isn't honest with another whether it be admitting you can't do FWB 'cos of emotions or leading someone on to believe FWB is more than that. I will say this, though, your humanity remains intact: someone WILL catch feelings... it's totally normal. Sometimes it's me and sometimes it's the other person. That never gets easier and the inevitable rejection it leads to never gets easier either (giving or receiving).
[–] libby [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
How often does one or both catch a case of the feels? Can you pretty much plan on that being how it ends?
[–] GeneralBoobington 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
eh, it feels like it does always end like that. i think ONCEEEE did it end with us just eventually not talking anymore. not in a bad way, but just drifted apart and found other people type of thing.
[–] ihaveabulldoge 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Depends on the other person and level of friendship/intimacy.