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[–] Tom_Spanx 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Pay attention to their current friends and friends from their recent past. This isn't even something you have to vet people about, just let them talk about their friends, or better yet, bring you along to hang out with them. For example, my mother seems alright when you only know her casually, but her best friends are both lunatics and her most recent ex-friends are also lunatics. Guess how she'll be once you get to know her!