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[–] Funkypurplekitty 0 points 38 points (+38|-0) ago 

How to have a healthy male relationship. That's what's being lost with girls at least. They need a father to show them how to pick a good man and have to good relationship with that man, how they should respect a man. So you have women either picking men that will knock them up and not stay or women who don't respect their husbands enough to stay with them and be loyal.

Boys need a father to show them how to treat women and how to be a leader. We have so many beta men siding with feminism because they didn't have a father around teaching them how to not let women walk all over them. They did not have a leader showing them how to lead.

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[–] midnightblue1335 0 points 18 points (+18|-0) ago 

I think you could even argue that young males aren't being taught how to have healthy friendships between each other, with mutual respect and loyalty to each other. Lacking a father is a precursor to all kinds of "awkward" behavior.

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[–] middle_path 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I grew up with a really shitty father, so I feel really weird around men who hold authority over me. I respect them, but there is always a distrust I cant get past. I

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[–] collin6173 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

I think also, the girls that do have fathers are constantly told they are princesses and taught they are better than every boy on earth, and never physically disciplined. So they grow up thinking their husband should treat them like their father did, and they should receive all of that without having to reciprocate any more than they did with their father. Also, the media reinforces these beliefs.

And most of the good Christian girls that actually try to follow what the Bible teaches, conveniently ignore the parts about being submissive to their husbands. They assume God is modern and progressive like them.

If I had a daughter though, I would probably end up raising her the same way. Thankfully I have sons though, so I don't have to worry about it. I just have to worry that they will end up marrying a spoiled, worn out, interracial-experimenting-with whore. About the only chance a young man has of marrying a good quality girl these days, is to find and date her since kindergarten, or at least before junior high.

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[–] killkillkill 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

That's not a result of modern fathers -- it's a result of modern Feminism, the women's movement and the mainstream media. Oh, and Beyonce.

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[–] Schreiber 2 points 3 points (+5|-2) ago  (edited ago)

About the only chance a young man has of marrying a good quality girl these days, is to find and date her since kindergarten, or at least before junior high.

Just learn how to pick up and groom girls. You can learn the theory in MAP message boards. Man of any age can pick up good quality girls if he knows how. It's not unethical if your intent is to marry the girl.

Just be confident. Those rapefugees are confident and pick up white teens left and right because the local man are mostly domesticated beta reserved and awkward "nice guy." Don't let media fool you, girls will and always will naturally go for the bad boys. Beta bux is only ever attractive to roasties who get bored of bad boy's dicks.

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[–] Funkypurplekitty 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

"I think also, the girls that do have fathers are constantly told they are princesses and taught they are better than every boy on earth, and never physically disciplined. So they grow up thinking their husband should treat them like their father did, and they should receive all of that without having to reciprocate any more than they did with their father. Also, the media reinforces these beliefs."

Sure this happens but really in that household who was running the show, him or his wife? A father is meant to show a daughter how she should expect men to treat her. Do some spoil there girls and give them the wrong idea, of course but the more fathers we had in kids life the less this would happen or at least more fathers would show their girls the reality of how they should be treated. I don't think a women is meant to be treated like a princess, given everything she wants, and can do no wrong but she should be treated like the lesser vessel and with honor as long as she is living up to her role. I think the lack of fathers makes men and women alike not realize the difference.