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[–] Dalmo 3 points 2 points (+5|-3) ago 

You are just a shitty person dude. Eventually in your life you need to examine yourself and see what you really are. Just re read what you wrote here man. It doesn't matter if you give money to the church or you volunteer at the soup kitchen. What defines you is how you treat people that you don't have to treat well.

It's not her that brings something bad out in you. There is something shitty and bad about you.

I'm not trying to be a dick, but I think you really should examine yourself and your relationship. If you really don't care what happens to her then you need to leave her. Once she gets away from you for a while she will feel fine, and she will realize what a terrible influence you have had on her life.

You only get to live one time, and you are destroying the experience this woman is having. You are literally stealing part of her life away because you are selfish and childish.

You seriously need to re examine your life.

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[–] Dumbtickles [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I'm not saying it's her fault. In no way I'm I saying that at all. No one deserves to be treated badly. But I don't think he's stealing any part of her. I think she's giving it away. He's made it abundantly clear to her what he thinks of her. And yet she continues. So is he a bad person for dealing out abuse. Maybe. Does she share the blame for willingly accepting that abuse. Maybe.

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[–] atotalnoob 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Or he should let her off the hook

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[–] TheVillain61 ago 

If you drag someone down so much that they lose their self worth, self confidence by telling them they are ugly, fat, have no friends etc then that person is a control freak, I've seen it happen.

It's easy to say "she should leave him" her reply would most likely be "who would have me, I'm fat, I'm ugly, I have no self worth so I just put up with it".

The only light at the end of the tunnel I see is that the guy is acknowledging he behaves badly towards her so hopefully he will change.